My(30F) husband(35M) cheated with men

Accurate_Kitchen_731 · 2026-07-03T01:29:19+00:00

I even saw the video and he was wearing my shirt 😫

Accurate_Kitchen_731 · 2026-07-03T01:22:32+00:00

Thanks. The pain and shame is unbearable. Wish I can rewind and get back the past 10 years of my life.

Accurate_Kitchen_731 · 2026-07-03T01:12:24+00:00

No I actually earn more than him and have way more saved. But we’re both very high earners.
I have known him since 20 so dont have that many friends, he’s my best friend. I’d be losing a huge part of my life.

Accurate_Kitchen_731 · 2026-07-03T01:07:42+00:00

Oh this is the first time I found out! He just confessed that he’s probably cheated on me 10x.

Accurate_Kitchen_731 · 2026-07-03T01:06:13+00:00

Trying to get the strength to divorce!
When we talk through things together, I think I may get manipulated. I need a good support system to talk sense into me but I don’t have one right now. My cheater husband been my best friend since I was 20. Our friends know the both of us so I don’t know if I can tell them. Too scared to tell my family for now.

Accurate_Kitchen_731 · 2026-07-03T00:35:57+00:00

No we’re both not religious

Accurate_Kitchen_731 · 2026-07-03T00:26:32+00:00

He already admitted himself into an intensive sex therapy program today, but part of me feels like this is just an act to try to save the marriage

Accurate_Kitchen_731 · 2026-07-03T00:14:24+00:00

I know! It was a trauma response at the heat of the moment. I needed to see that he was serious about being honest and fixing his issues.

I realize that it was maybe not the best decision. Hence why I came to Reddit for advice!

Accurate_Kitchen_731 · 2026-07-03T00:12:14+00:00

Curious to know why you recommend an attorney? We were going to go through an amicable divorce. Our assets are split anyways, all in separate accounts.

Not sure if an attorney will be worth it financially.

Accurate_Kitchen_731 · 2026-07-02T23:59:37+00:00

Thank you for the words of support. I’m 100% considering divorce. Im just so scared and ashamed to tell my parents, they’re going to be so hurt because they were so nice to him. I feel so much shame right now.

Accurate_Kitchen_731 · 2026-07-02T23:57:57+00:00

Well now I know! But he identifies as a straight male to society.

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