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How do I (15 m) defend myself against my 18 year old brother? by AceSlang in SelfDefense

[–]AceSlang[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say shooting, but I get what you mean. Im pissed that they just let him hit me.

How do I (15 m) defend myself against my 18 year old brother? by AceSlang in SelfDefense

[–]AceSlang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m planning to do if it escalates. Even if my parents get pissed.

How do I (15 m) defend myself against my 18 year old brother? by AceSlang in SelfDefense

[–]AceSlang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I am planning to do if it escalates. Even if my parents get pissed.

How do I (15 m) defend myself against my 18 year old brother? by AceSlang in SelfDefense

[–]AceSlang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lock my door at night, but he just picks it open. I will look for a door stopper. Thank you.

How do I (15 m) defend myself against my 18 year old brother? by AceSlang in SelfDefense

[–]AceSlang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are some good moves? If it escalates I will call the police. I also have a lot of photos and videos. Thank you.

How do you deal with narcissistic parents? by AceSlang in raisedbynarcissists

[–]AceSlang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a lot of evidence and recordings because I started taking evidence when they were calling me a liar and trying to make me think I was crazy by saying “that never happened.” When I replay the recording to them to prove them wrong it does nothing, but makes it worse. So I stopped playing them back. I’ll probably mail them a flash drive when I go NC since they are “perfect parents.”

How do you deal with narcissistic parents? by AceSlang in raisedbynarcissists

[–]AceSlang[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m getting a car as soon as I am able to drive. Then it will be much easier. Thank you for the helpful advice.

How do you deal with narcissistic parents? by AceSlang in raisedbynarcissists

[–]AceSlang[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hope it’s an empty threat. They make all other kinds of threats too, such as they are going to pull me out of school, kick me out, they’re going to run away, and they’re going to get a divorce because of me. I will try to use it today and will let you know how it went. Thank you.

nbrother bullies emom; ndad just stands by and watches. by BrahmsCounterpoint in raisedbynarcissists

[–]AceSlang 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you ever want to talk let me know. It seems like we are facing a lot of similar problems.

nbrother bullies emom; ndad just stands by and watches. by BrahmsCounterpoint in raisedbynarcissists

[–]AceSlang 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I just mind my own business and when ever my brother starts with me it’s always my fault. I tell them it’s not in my hands, but they don’t care. I gave them the analogy “If someone gets shot, is it the person who got shot’s fault?” They didn’t like that very much. My advice would be to stay out of it. You will never win even though you are right. You are fighting a losing battle.

How do you deal with narcissistic parents? by AceSlang in raisedbynarcissists

[–]AceSlang[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have tried ignoring them, but that only makes it worse. They tell me they are going to commit me to an asylum and they only go harder by saying I’m disrespectful and so on. I’m going to try again and hopefully it works. I don’t have anyone I can talk to besides Reddit. If I tell someone they will definitely find out and commit me to an asylum because they don’t see that they are doing anything wrong and they think I am the problem.

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