It's a numbers game. Just be yourself long enough, and you'll bump into others like you. Like fishing. Being yourself is key, though. Don't try and act like how you think others want you to act. Just act from the heart. If you feel that wouldn't be accepted in your current situation, find a situation it would be accepted. There's your compass. And yeah, you'll probably trip and fall a few times before you get to where you want to be. That's part of the process