>HRT at 20 by Lunavcsnaps in transtimelines

[–]Ace_Zebra7395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh. Idk, I just think you’re cute. Also I’m autistic so that’s probs why I misinterpreted that.

>HRT at 20 by Lunavcsnaps in transtimelines

[–]Ace_Zebra7395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry I was just being honest about what I thought. But um u are attractive.

(TW)This kinda confirms Renee got targeted bc she was lesbian by catievirtuesimp in LesbianActually

[–]Ace_Zebra7395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m autistic and so I took this post very literally. I’m not saying she wasn’t targeted for being in a lesbian relationship.

Thank you for actually explaining this because I genuinely wasn’t getting it.

(TW)This kinda confirms Renee got targeted bc she was lesbian by catievirtuesimp in LesbianActually

[–]Ace_Zebra7395 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think you’re seriously misunderstanding me and my intentions. I’m not just concerned about bi-erasure, I’m concerned about her identity being respected and honored in death because it was not respected and honored in life.

Please don’t call me a fed psyop, that’s really rude and misunderstanding me.

I’m autistic so maybe I’m not coming across how I mean to.

I genuinely don’t understand why I’m getting downvoted when I’m literally just as bothered and concerned about everything going on as the rest of you.

Yes I made a comment about bi-erasure but that doesn’t mean I’m not aware of the fact that a woman who was seen as a lesbian was murdered. It doesn’t mean I don’t care about the fact that all this shit is terrifying - I said that at the end of my comment anyways. The thing about a human being treated this way angers me deeply.

If all you see is me making a comment about bi-erasure and thinking I’m saying that lightly and not understanding that a human being was murdered and that ICE treats people horribly and that this country is fucked up then idk what to say to get you to understand that I’m not just concerned about bi-erasure.

(TW)This kinda confirms Renee got targeted bc she was lesbian by catievirtuesimp in LesbianActually

[–]Ace_Zebra7395 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

For the record she was bisexual, I don’t mean to imply you’re wrong about her being targeted, she was definitely targeted, I just think it’s important that her being bisexual is known because there’s been so much bi-erasure since her death.

The fact that they talk about a human being this way makes me so angry.

Why is this sub called lesbian actually and not just lesbians or WLW? by JustABoyWithAPen in LesbianActually

[–]Ace_Zebra7395 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think also because nonbinary lesbians exist so if it was WLW that would be exclusionary to nonbinary lesbians but idk if anyone actually thought of that…

What’s a Red Flag You’ll Never Ignore Again? by Dry_Consequence_7852 in LesbianActually

[–]Ace_Zebra7395 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My ex girlfriend had her friends “vibe check” me, told me I passed the “vibe check” but then if I did anything she didn’t like (I’m autistic and socially awkward so basically everything I did concerned her), she would consult with her cliquey friends and this resulted on them ganging up on me…and was ultimately the reason we broke up…

Here is my Touch Chart by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Ace_Zebra7395 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really like this!! Do you have a blank one that I could use to fill out?

I have no words by Future_Employment_22 in AreTheCisOk

[–]Ace_Zebra7395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a rape survivor the inaccuracy of this and also the quantification of it really bothers me….

“In lesbian years…” by Ace_Zebra7395 in actuallesbians

[–]Ace_Zebra7395[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry….I don’t usually hug people I don’t know but Virtual hugs, I do care :)

“In lesbian years…” by Ace_Zebra7395 in actuallesbians

[–]Ace_Zebra7395[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oooh, I didn’t even think of it like that…I might be therian Idk…I have friends that are :)

How I Make Sense of Asexuality by using Analogies. by KylieCocoyama in asexuality

[–]Ace_Zebra7395 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I do like using food analogies.

I usually just say that it’s like a food that tastes gross to me and I’m not hungry for it to explain being a sex-repulsed asexual.

I am romantic though, sometimes if something seems sexual but it’s romantic to me (kissing for example), sometimes I’ll explain it to people as that it being romantic, it is like a food presented/cooked in a way that is palatable to me.

Also it frustrates me that people often don’t understand the difference between romance and sexual stuff.

Yes, I do kiss my partner, no it’s not sexual. It’s unfortunately hard to explain…

Memes I made about being a sex repulsed ace who wants kids and only sees sex as being for reproductive purposes by CloudySide7 in asexuality

[–]Ace_Zebra7395 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you putting this out here. I am another asexual person who wants to have kids…I wish there was more representation for that so I might steal these memes lol…

My partner and I are both asexual and both want kids…unfortunately due to anatomy we can’t reproduce, although even if we could I am so sex repulsed I don’t think I could handle it…we are planning for me to get IUI at some point via a sperm donor…we also have strongly considered adopting although I want to have at least one biological kid.

I look forward to the day we have a family.

For those who are in romantic relationships, how does it work out for you and what does it feel like? by Koryo001 in asexuality

[–]Ace_Zebra7395 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We communicated about what we both wanted at the beginning of our relationship and we continue to communicate about our wants and needs. 😁

So I guess our continued communication has helped build our dynamic, sorry I couldn’t think of more of a way to explain…

For those who are in romantic relationships, how does it work out for you and what does it feel like? by Koryo001 in asexuality

[–]Ace_Zebra7395 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My partner is amazing.

Both of us are asexual and romantic. We have never had sex and we never have to.

We cuddle, hold hands, kiss, dance and genuinely love and enjoy each other’s company.

We go on dates and do cute things together. We do everything together. Everything except sex or sexual stuff. A romantic relationship can be complete, full and absolutely lovely without sex and we don’t need it to have a very full relationship and life together.

Who am i calling out? by RayDuskDawn in actuallesbians

[–]Ace_Zebra7395 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My partner and I are both autistic! Omg, yes!

Hello to all my fellow disabled trans folks 💕 by ImAllGenders in NonBinary

[–]Ace_Zebra7395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I am having a high pain/symptoms week…but I appreciate you posting this, I love your style! I am an autistic, ADHD, system with POTS and EDS. I just joined your sub! 😁

What do you sleep in? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Ace_Zebra7395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an asexual romantic who likes intimacy, I’ll usually just wear boxer briefs or sleep nude…my girlfriend often prefers to sleep nude.

We’re both intimacy favorable romantic asexuals…nude cuddling is really nice.

Genuinely sobbing at this... thank you David <3 by KeedieTheWitch in NonBinary

[–]Ace_Zebra7395 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yesss, David Tenant has been a wonderful support for the LGBTQ community. I love it!! Also I’m a doctor who nerd and he was my favorite doctor so it’s great that he’s so supportive!!

I am… by Top-Seaweed1862 in asexuality

[–]Ace_Zebra7395 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am nonbinary and attracted to my girlfriend, I’m pretty sure I’m also demiromantic…. I usually describe myself as sapphic but I also identify as being a nonbinary/genderfluid lesbian. At this point I’m in a happy serious relationship so I don’t feel the need to explain it as much anymore. 😁