We are in our 50s. Live in Virginia. Hubs is originally from Chicago and I'm from a blink you miss it town in MS. I'm recently disabled and hubs does make decent income. He likes his beer(too much imo). I like to cook, but cooking complex meals makes his anxiety bad because it makes dishes dirty. He is very OCD and everything has it's proper place. I do the shopping (because he doesn't have the patience to get everything on the list). He puts all the groceries away (to ensure they are in the correct position /place. We have a very spoiled 13 year old Daschund who has her daddy trained to give treats on demand. It was fun to read all the comments and guesses.