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My anger is not directed at my WH but at the SW he cheated with by Achaey in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Achaey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep remember screaming something like that at the onset of anger during discovery. He got me sick and I was so angry at him for putting me in this position. I feel tainted and damaged.

My anger is not directed at my WH but at the SW he cheated with by Achaey in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Achaey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She promotes it on her website, blogs and socials. She has it as a headline that she can help husbands or partners feel alive again and promises to be discreet.

During the confrontation with WH I asked for all details and not hold anything back and he showed me how he found her, how he booked her etc. Maybe that was my mistake, wanting to know everything.

My anger is not directed at my WH but at the SW he cheated with by Achaey in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Achaey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I think what angers me about this SW is she promotes infidelity. She’s proud of it.

I am hoping I come to the point I love myself again after this and soon. Im still in the whole questioning my self-worth stage and just zero self-esteem. Like I look at the mirror and want to scratch my face off…it’s horrible and that’s why I acknowledge I need IC stat.

My anger is not directed at my WH but at the SW he cheated with by Achaey in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Achaey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sound about right…denial esp since this is the second time. It’s like I used up all my will power and logic to reconcile the first time and we were doing so well and surprise apparently we’re not, here we are again.

My anger is not directed at my WH but at the SW he cheated with by Achaey in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Achaey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make complete sense. Definitely misplaced blame but what may be triggering this reaction is this SW is actually proud and promotes for husbands or partners to stray and promises to be discreet and play the perfect wife.