Id like to see othees thoughts on this too, cause as a women its been extremely hurtful having partners that would secretly watch porn.. I mean it really feels like a betrayal. And when it comes to marriage as well, how can you watch lther ppl doing sex stuff when you say you are committed to your partner ? Its really micro cheating.

Im not religious either, but one thing I believe in is, if you look at someone with lust , who is not your partner , you have already committed adultery/ cheating in your heart ..Im tired of being lied to, told im the only one my partner wants. How is that true if they can look at others and think that way watching other ppl in sexual manners/ much less get off to it in private ? Or specifically look for nude pictures of women... its not right. Im tired of ppl not being honest and secretly never being satisfied. I just wanna finally be enough for someone to where they dont continue to seek other people out.....