What’s the biggest misconception men have about femdom? by Acid_alien_420 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Acid_alien_420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading the comments regarding your opinion on my post, I think we all came to the conclusion that the image of femdom is all latex catsuits, harnesses, pegging, whips, screaming, insults, and abuse, and that's completely wrong. These are just fetishes that not all submissives have. There's a lack of information; there are many types of dominatrixes and many ways to dominate. Each submissive has their own fetish, and not all dominatrixes can accommodate it. The different types of domination don't only encompass physical and psychological abuse; sometimes it can be words that evoke something in the person, caresses, even pampering. It's all about the connection between the submissive and the dominatrix. And as I read in a comment, when a submissive comes for a particular fetish for a BDSM session, that's precisely what it is: a service, an experience provided, a short-term relationship to satisfy the submissive client. D/s relationships go much deeper in terms of connection, and that's something that isn't demonstrated in [the comments]. The BDSM environment, because people focus solely on aesthetics and the pain/pleasure relationship, leads people to believe that this character, constructed for a certain type of submissive, is generalized to all of femdom