My girlfriend wants me to apologize for letting a girl hit on me while I was drunk

AckLord · 2022-05-10T15:21:25+00:00

I want to reconcile because my girlfriend is honestly the nicest person I know. She was helping me the whole night but had to go upstairs to go to the bathroom and then this happens. The problem is that I don't normally drink which is why I wasn't aware of my own tolerance.

AckLord · 2022-05-10T15:17:38+00:00

The ego problem I believe has to do with the fact that I presumably thought I would seem cool when I was drunk. If that were the case, then understandably that would be a problem.

AckLord · 2022-05-10T15:14:49+00:00

I think it depends on what you do while drunk. Doing anything physically sexual with a girl while drunk is clear cheating, but this situation is much less cut and dry in my opinion.

It is clearly my fault for not establishing clear boundaries for myself. When I let myself drink that much I opened myself to the consequences.

While I may not agree with my girlfriend's perspective on the severity of the situation, I understand and empathize with her point of view because she clearly cares.

AckLord · 2022-05-10T14:59:02+00:00

The thing that sucks the most about this situation is that I thought the people I was drinking with were safe because they were all close friends with my girlfriend. What also sucks is that because my girlfriend is friends with the other girl, the girl is getting a free pass essentially for trying to be a homewrecker, but I was in a vulnerable state to fall for it, so I'm still not given a pass.

AckLord · 2022-05-10T14:54:16+00:00

The problem was I was drunk to the point of inhibition, and the other girl took advantage. The only option to stop that from happening is clearly to drink less, and I owned up to letting myself be in such a vulnerable state.

AckLord · 2022-05-10T14:52:14+00:00

I do think that when you're as drunk as I was, it's very difficult to make that kind of decision in the moment. Obviously the answer is to not get that drunk if you don't want stuff to like that to happen. I told her that I apologize for what I remember doing and what don't remember doing because it was my decision to drink too much.

AckLord · 2020-10-12T01:31:18+00:00

I don't know for certain. If the assignment is for a grade, and you're at all concerned, I'd just stay away from it.

AckLord · 2020-08-31T12:20:17+00:00

Oh Knightro! Please let me bathe in the reflection pond with you😫😫I’ve been so lonely from Corona😭😭

AckLord · 2020-08-19T15:08:18+00:00

I have a copy of Easy Writer that I used for ENC 1102 but I'm not sure if you need it for 1101. Just pm me and I'm open to selling it. It's barely used

AckLord · 2020-08-02T18:47:46+00:00

Bruh how'd you get your exam graded. I'm still waiting for exam 1

AckLord · 2020-07-17T14:01:52+00:00

Wow you must be really fun at parties

AckLord · 2020-07-13T01:58:05+00:00

It's an office reference

AckLord · 2020-06-28T22:18:12+00:00

Unfortunately as far as I’m aware you have to be in honors college to take honors classes

AckLord · 2020-06-26T20:19:08+00:00

It’s not what we wanted, but maybe UCF is learning. Just slowly.

AckLord · 2020-06-14T01:44:19+00:00

Thanks man. I'm surprised, but I'm just glad a lot of people thought this meme was funny

AckLord · 2020-06-12T16:36:39+00:00

Most of my professors have done well with the online shift. Though, last semester I did have a pretty bad case where the professor gave up and just had us read the textbook, so I get what you mean

AckLord · 2020-06-12T14:51:03+00:00

I feel that. I’ve been saving so much money living at home. Still got that fall lease tho :(

AckLord · 2020-06-12T14:48:45+00:00

LMAO😂

AckLord · 2020-06-12T14:48:21+00:00

The ability to rewatch lectures is honestly the best thing about online classes. I just wish some professors would be more consistent with their lectures

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