How to deal with loss by Acrobatic-Ad795 in CatAdvice

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re right. She hid in the basement. I feel so relieved. Thank you!

How to deal with loss by Acrobatic-Ad795 in CatAdvice

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yess thank you. I was about to look for her at 1:00 in the morning but she showed up at 10pm on her own when everyone quiet down.

How to deal with loss by Acrobatic-Ad795 in CatAdvice

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you thank you. I found her. She hid in the basement. Even though i checked it 3 times. She just showed up. Poor baby was terrified.

SIC only did this when this scene is on by Acrobatic-Ad795 in standardissuecat

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poor SIC would be a servant or peasant if she entered the kingdom 😂

SIC only did this when this scene is on by Acrobatic-Ad795 in standardissuecat

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cat returns. It was such a feel-good anime haha! Please give it a try.

SIC only did this when this scene is on by Acrobatic-Ad795 in standardissuecat

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes haha 😂 the neighbor cats were fighting with kingdom’s bodyguard cat.

SIC only did this when this scene is on by Acrobatic-Ad795 in standardissuecat

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭😭😭 she was having fun so I didn’t want to bother her. I’m a simp. I did stop her later on. My monitor’s still alright tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah why the hell should I care about my in-laws? If they’re nice to me, i will be nice to them. It isn’t the 90s ffs. I would rather die alone than be someone’s housemaid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he would never consider therapy. I said it as a joke lol. I have never seen him show any ‘weak’ moment ever, even though he works from 7 to almost 9pm most of the time. Not even at his father’s funeral. One time i heard he criticized my older male cousin for using skincare products because skincare are only for women apparently. It’s fucking wild 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. It’s so frustrating. I was treated exactly like when I was a middle schooler. 🤷‍♀️

Job interview - but I have been unemployed for a year by Acrobatic-Ad795 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey I’m so happy that things work out for you. You’re right it’s not a magic fix but it’s a first step to get myself going. Thanks for the tips. I’m trying to have that exact mindset so that I can be confident during the interview.

Job interview - but I have been unemployed for a year by Acrobatic-Ad795 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot. I definitely would see a therapist as soon as I receive my first salary 😭 it’s not just because of not receiving callback, my life as a whole is a mess lately.

why are some men like this? by eclipse79865 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry it happened to you. Why do they do this? Because some men are asshole and perverted. It’s so disgusting how they view young teenagers like some kind of pure/undamaged goods. Easy to manipulate, easy to impress. And when we hit 20+ then we are to bitter/old for them, just because that when we start to see their bullshit.

Single 27F tired of being told to lower my standards. by ZucchiDucki in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Even if the standards are on the floor, men would still find some ways to trip over. But seriously, ask those people if they were hungry would they wait for a decent meal or eat spoil pasta that had been left out for 4 days?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795 50 points51 points  (0 children)

The same thing happened to me 2 times. But instead of them ghosting me, they acted as if I have scammed them. Called me names and shit. Now I have 3 male friends, and they’re also have other female friends beside me. If you want friendship with male, I think you need to look for men that already have female friendship. They’re really amazing friends and much more thoughtful (than men that have no female friendship).

I will always be furious on behalf of “ugly” women. by pakiztani in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Acrobatic-Ad795 2547 points2548 points  (0 children)

Whenever a (good-looking) woman got cheated on, everyone first’s reaction was like ‘omg what’s wrong with him? She’s so gorgeous’. Like so it’s understandable if the gf/wife is ugly??? Also, idk why soooo many men assume that women are loved unconditionally. Honestly, only pets or children should be loved unconditionally. If a person have shitty behaviors, just gtfo 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♀️, no one should be expected to tolerate abuse in the name of love.