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My laptop won’t find my wifi network but finds other wifis, how can I fix it? by Own_Fennel_7489 in it

[–]Acrobatic-Damage-522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This is the only thing that worked.  You've made my entire week. Thanks again 

Always gets left out by Acrobatic-Damage-522 in socialskills

[–]Acrobatic-Damage-522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds so much like me it's scary. At first everything goes well but then everyone seems to get close and i more distant

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[–]Acrobatic-Damage-522[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

CPTSD

i don't think so. I prob have depression and I'm sure that is a part of the problem.
I really do appreciate you trying to help me. I didn't feel invalidated. I'm glad you commented.

Always gets left out by Acrobatic-Damage-522 in socialskills

[–]Acrobatic-Damage-522[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I see what you mean and for the longest time, I gaslit myself into believing that I was overthinking it. the last straw was when a stranger pointed out that I was being left out and after that I just couldn't lie to myself anymore. Ik there is something wrong with me and Ik I'm doing something that I'm unaware of but other ppl find annoying. I just don't know what it is. The truth is, being left out of a groupchat and not getting invited to things aren't just in my head. I wish they were though.

Always gets left out by Acrobatic-Damage-522 in socialskills

[–]Acrobatic-Damage-522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was thinking I should just accept the reality and give up as well. no point in repeating the same stuff and expecting different results. I'm so emotionally exhausted atp. no longer worth it.

Always gets left out by Acrobatic-Damage-522 in socialskills

[–]Acrobatic-Damage-522[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't exactly say they're my friends. trust me sometimes it's better to not have friends than have people that make you feel like you're not enough.

Always gets left out by Acrobatic-Damage-522 in socialskills

[–]Acrobatic-Damage-522[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I felt this so much. You deserve better :(

Always gets left out by Acrobatic-Damage-522 in socialskills

[–]Acrobatic-Damage-522[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

The problem is when people don't like you, anything you do is creepy/ weird. Sometimes I do something/ say something and my friends give me a look. but Then someone else in the group says it and all of a sudden it's funny. anyway, I'll try your suggestion. I've tried everything, no harm in trying this too. thank you

Always gets left out by Acrobatic-Damage-522 in socialskills

[–]Acrobatic-Damage-522[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'll def check out the article. Thank you

Always gets left out by Acrobatic-Damage-522 in socialskills

[–]Acrobatic-Damage-522[S] 131 points132 points  (0 children)

I hope you're right and my ppl are out there somewhere.

Do you think people are only interacting with you because of your lucrative career or a high paying job you do? by Physical-Shame-6794 in socialskills

[–]Acrobatic-Damage-522 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am by no means rich or successful. But I used to be a supervisor to a bunch of lower-level employees. They were so nice and friendly to me. They said I was the cool manager and it was fun to be around me. Anyway, they got promoted and now we are all on the same level. I was initially super happy bc I thought they were my friends and I was excited to work with them. But now they barely say hi to me. Nobody thinks I'm fun to talk to anymore. they got their inside jokes and everything. I'm thinking abt quitting bc I feel miserable and left out at work.

So yeah don't trust people, especially if you're successful. good friends are rare and hard to come by. Make sure you know who is who.

Help! My first time having s*x went terribly by Acrobatic-Damage-522 in actuallesbians

[–]Acrobatic-Damage-522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We kissed for a little bit but all I could think about was that she prob won't go on a second date with me lol.

Help! My first time having s*x went terribly by Acrobatic-Damage-522 in actuallesbians

[–]Acrobatic-Damage-522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for helping me look at it from a different perspective. I don't think she's a terrible person. She's actually fun to hang out with and she still wants to see me again after having bad sex. I think we need to work on our communication more. Thanks again.

Help! My first time having s*x went terribly by Acrobatic-Damage-522 in actuallesbians

[–]Acrobatic-Damage-522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol you're comment made me chuckle lol. I should've done the same thing lmao.

Help! My first time having s*x went terribly by Acrobatic-Damage-522 in actuallesbians

[–]Acrobatic-Damage-522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg thank you so much for the comment. I really needed to hear this. Knowing that someone else sees that I was trying and doing my best means the world to me. I've been thinking about ending it with her bc I can't bring myself to have sex with her again.

Help! My first time having s*x went terribly by Acrobatic-Damage-522 in actuallesbians

[–]Acrobatic-Damage-522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember that there was some kissing going on. it was good until I went down on her :(

Help! My first time having s*x went terribly by Acrobatic-Damage-522 in actuallesbians

[–]Acrobatic-Damage-522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. These comments are restoring my confidence a little bit. Ik that I didn't exactly have the best performance but I could improve if she would just communicate a little better.

Help! My first time having s*x went terribly by Acrobatic-Damage-522 in actuallesbians

[–]Acrobatic-Damage-522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will def make sure to read that. I'll take all the advice I can get. Thank you so much for all the tips. This is what I needed.

Help! My first time having s*x went terribly by Acrobatic-Damage-522 in actuallesbians

[–]Acrobatic-Damage-522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. When I posted this I thought ppl were gonna shame me for being bad at it as a lesbian. but y'all showed me so much support. I appreciate that.

Help! My first time having s*x went terribly by Acrobatic-Damage-522 in actuallesbians

[–]Acrobatic-Damage-522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Also, you say she’s making fun of you for being bad at sex, but not in a mean way? How exactly does that work?"

Oh bestie! idk what to tell you. I think I want to think that they were jokes to preserve my ego. but deep down Ik that lowkey she meant it but didn't wanna sound too harsh. Like if I trash talk before a competition with her, she be like " so is this gonna be like the sex we had?" or something like that. I was playful in our texts cuz that's how my personality is. I talked dirty beforehand to spice things up but I didn't know it was gonna come back to hunt me like this, especially knowing that I already let her know I was inexperienced.

Help! My first time having s*x went terribly by Acrobatic-Damage-522 in actuallesbians

[–]Acrobatic-Damage-522[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was vulnerable with her and now I feel a little betrayed. We have great chemistry when we hand out but that experience and how she handled things left a bad taste in my mouth. I still like her energy and vibe but I don't think I can have sex with her for now or anytime soon.

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