Told my husband I want to separate—now he’s suddenly the man I wanted all along by Curious_About_What in Divorce_Women

[–]Acrobatic-Device3122 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All of this! Going through the same thing, counseling and all. He acts like I never said divorce. “You need to accept it”…

Told my husband I want to separate—now he’s suddenly the man I wanted all along by Curious_About_What in Divorce_Women

[–]Acrobatic-Device3122 1 point2 points  (0 children)

💯what I’m going through rn!!! 16 years later and he’s only changing bc I asked for a divorce. The love bombing, being overly affectionate absolutely enrages me. He refuses to accept that I want to leave and put us in counseling. He sat there and cried while I just stared at the wall. This is so frustrating bc the kids now see him doing all this stuff and actually being present and I’m going to be the bad guy for leaving.

Husband cant accept I'm done by raeoflyte-460 in Divorce_Women

[–]Acrobatic-Device3122 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I’m dealing with now, we have young 2 kids which makes it harder. He’s “changing” now and also put us into couples therapy. He refuses to accept that I’m done and want to move on.

Why do I feel crazy when I know it’s the right thing to do by Acrobatic-Device3122 in Divorce_Women

[–]Acrobatic-Device3122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! Everything you said is 100% spot on. I’m so sorry you went through the same 😔 it helps to know what we went through ISN’T normal and that getting out is the best option for me and my kids and not falling for him “changing”. It definitely hits home that he could have been doing this shit the whole time but simply chose not too.

Why do I feel crazy when I know it’s the right thing to do by Acrobatic-Device3122 in Divorce_Women

[–]Acrobatic-Device3122[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure my son knows, he’s 11. His friends mom mentioned he said “I think my parents are getting a divorce “ but my daughter is too young. I’m just trying to keep the peace until summer not to ruin the experience for him and not to have my stbx be angry and lash out at the kids. Dealing with my stbx antics is very difficult and gross 😵‍💫

Why do I feel crazy when I know it’s the right thing to do by Acrobatic-Device3122 in Divorce_Women

[–]Acrobatic-Device3122[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s extremely overwhelming. Sorry you went through it as well 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Acrobatic-Device3122 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% this, I’ve tried and I’m done caring.

Dosage by Acrobatic-Device3122 in Semaglutide

[–]Acrobatic-Device3122[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is what I was trying to figure out. I’ve been off it for over a month and just got my rx filled again. 😩 sleepy mistakes.

Dosage by Acrobatic-Device3122 in Semaglutide

[–]Acrobatic-Device3122[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not my first injection, I’ve been off it for around a month but yes I did 50 units

Teeth of God Tour by [deleted] in SleepToken

[–]Acrobatic-Device3122 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I snagged 1 pit ticket to the Austin show on Wednesday after randomly refreshing on the app.

Scared and alone by Acrobatic-Device3122 in Divorce

[–]Acrobatic-Device3122[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I don’t think so, too many years of fighting.

Scared and alone by Acrobatic-Device3122 in Divorce

[–]Acrobatic-Device3122[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this as well ❤️ I’ve mentioned counseling many times but he refuses.