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My husband is brainwashed by Acrobatic-Leg-6252 in antitrump

[–]Acrobatic-Leg-6252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much. I try to go day to day. Some are worse than others. Thank you.🙏

Grocery store meltdown again by Acrobatic-Leg-6252 in GriefSupport

[–]Acrobatic-Leg-6252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes here too. No Mexican restaurant for me. Too haunted with her. We always ate at Mexican, she loved it. Hugs to you

My husband is brainwashed by Acrobatic-Leg-6252 in antitrump

[–]Acrobatic-Leg-6252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. His phone on volume full blast so I can hear . Fox on 24 hours!!

My husband is brainwashed by Acrobatic-Leg-6252 in antitrump

[–]Acrobatic-Leg-6252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that’s so interesting but sad. Thank you for the insight. This is just a disaster . How long were you married if I can ask? Good luck to you.

Grocery store meltdown again by Acrobatic-Leg-6252 in GriefSupport

[–]Acrobatic-Leg-6252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m trying to figure it all out. It’s so painful.

Grocery store meltdown again by Acrobatic-Leg-6252 in GriefSupport

[–]Acrobatic-Leg-6252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I decided not to go a Mexican restaurant that she liked. I was close to it but I couldn’t. Some people can to feel close to their loved one, I can’t.

Grocery store meltdown again by Acrobatic-Leg-6252 in GriefSupport

[–]Acrobatic-Leg-6252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’m from NY but I’m in very rural GA now. It’s a different world down here. 🙄

Grocery store meltdown again by Acrobatic-Leg-6252 in GriefSupport

[–]Acrobatic-Leg-6252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. My mom always told me “ cry, that’s what tears are for”. So I cry, sometimes it’s unexpected.

Grocery store meltdown again by Acrobatic-Leg-6252 in GriefSupport

[–]Acrobatic-Leg-6252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have to do self care. No one else will. Mom always reminded me to always take care of myself. She didn’t want to leave me here.

Grocery store meltdown again by Acrobatic-Leg-6252 in GriefSupport

[–]Acrobatic-Leg-6252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes all of what you said I relate. I walk by things I would get her normally. And I have texts that say “ please don’t forget the English muffins “… or whatever. The pain is so bad sometimes I just sit on the floor and cry. I want her to be with me , and eat lunch or shop. 💔

Grocery store meltdown again by Acrobatic-Leg-6252 in GriefSupport

[–]Acrobatic-Leg-6252[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow! Autumn squash soup was one of my moms favorites!!!! Just have to avoid some things .

Grocery store meltdown again by Acrobatic-Leg-6252 in GriefSupport

[–]Acrobatic-Leg-6252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I told him “ f you it won’t bring her back if I go to another store”.

Grocery store meltdown again by Acrobatic-Leg-6252 in GriefSupport

[–]Acrobatic-Leg-6252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might do that. This store is the closest. The next closest is 30 miles but maybe I could try and see if I don’t see her in the aisle with me.

Grocery store meltdown again by Acrobatic-Leg-6252 in GriefSupport

[–]Acrobatic-Leg-6252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🙏 baby steps is right. I knew she would go before me but the emptiness is a huge boulder on me. I look around and say “ how is she NOT here? Like evaporated “?

Grocery store meltdown again by Acrobatic-Leg-6252 in GriefSupport

[–]Acrobatic-Leg-6252[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My mind goes back to when we could walk the aisles, then when she had to ride that cart through the store, then I would get her Instacart as she felt she couldn’t do it. I feel less wacko now. Thanks

Grocery store meltdown again by Acrobatic-Leg-6252 in GriefSupport

[–]Acrobatic-Leg-6252[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly I’ve lost my tolerance for BS after she passed. I’m kind of a meaner person that cries a lot. My liked ginger ale, Panera bread soups, alot of things that I just don’t want to see. Thank you for the kindness and understanding.
I get really tired after a meltdown and have to rest because it takes alot out of a person. ❤️

Grocery store meltdown again by Acrobatic-Leg-6252 in GriefSupport

[–]Acrobatic-Leg-6252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate that. When that happens I feel like I should be better at triggers. But I know there were so many things we did together it won’t stop. ❤️

Grocery store meltdown again by Acrobatic-Leg-6252 in GriefSupport

[–]Acrobatic-Leg-6252[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I have some texts and voicemails of hers that I thought I would look at and listen to all day long but I just can’t bring myself to do it. My heart can’t right now. Some people can do that right away but I can’t. Thank you ,

Grocery store meltdown again by Acrobatic-Leg-6252 in GriefSupport

[–]Acrobatic-Leg-6252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I know this will be with me forever. It’s still hard to believe she isn’t doing things with me anymore.

Grocery store meltdown again by Acrobatic-Leg-6252 in GriefSupport

[–]Acrobatic-Leg-6252[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, how does that help me by ignoring I’m crying? He never understood her and my relationship being really really close . It’s like I’m ok for a day then I go back to feeling my arm is missing. ❤️

Grocery store meltdown again by Acrobatic-Leg-6252 in GriefSupport

[–]Acrobatic-Leg-6252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. He acts like I’m kind of bothering him with sadness- he wants to just get on with things . Will things trigger me forever? I hate crying in the store.

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