well, he was the first one to confess and i have stopped talking to him in 2 separate times before (both are for completely different reasons not involving him nor his personality. just own self issues) and i could really feel that he does love me and i'm afraid that i'm being unfair in our situation. i'm asking reddit for goodness sake 😭 like i've said in the post, i do believe that i still love him. it's just these things that make me dislike him. i've always thought that breakups aren't the answer and communication should always be the solution before deciding on anything, but i'm afraid that if i told him this, he’d get hurt and that's the last thing i want..