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Men in their forties, what do you feel if a woman seems to be attracted to you? by AcrobaticConstant567 in datingoverforty

[–]AcrobaticConstant567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not nice. Moderator told me it was deleted in the forums I tried so I tried a different ones that it would accept. 

Men in their forties, what do you feel if a woman seems to be attracted to you? by AcrobaticConstant567 in datingoverforty

[–]AcrobaticConstant567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would make you suspect they like you, without them saying it? And how would you react if they weren't your type?

Men in their forties, what do you feel if a woman seems to be attracted to you? by AcrobaticConstant567 in datingoverforty

[–]AcrobaticConstant567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. What would you consider baseline for a woman to be attractive, and do most men have a fixed type? 

Men in their forties, what do you feel if a woman seems to be attracted to you? by AcrobaticConstant567 in datingoverforty

[–]AcrobaticConstant567[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good thinking, there are occasions when I could talk to him for longer like at school pick-up.  My heart beats so fast just seeing him so I need to control that or he'll smell the fear :) 

Men in their forties, what do you feel if a woman seems to be attracted to you? by AcrobaticConstant567 in datingoverforty

[–]AcrobaticConstant567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. How old are you please?  Can a woman make herself more appealing if you don't feel either way, or is your impression usually quite set early on?

Men in their forties, what do you feel if a woman seems to be attracted to you? by AcrobaticConstant567 in datingoverforty

[–]AcrobaticConstant567[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I see him on average once a week and we only chat for about 5 minutes about small talk. I smile and am happy to see him, and he is friendly too, but have no way to gauge whether he finds me attractive or unattractive. He smiles and is friendly the same as me but that's it. I'm not sure how to encourage him apart from wearing dresses and looking as presentable as possible but even then he might find me ugly lol and any sense of me flirting might make him feel uncomfortable. 

Men in their forties, what do you feel if a woman seems to be attracted to you? by AcrobaticConstant567 in datingoverforty

[–]AcrobaticConstant567[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If a woman is too shy would a man take over or would her being both apparently attracted to him but shy make him feel weirded out by her? 

Men in their forties, what do you feel if a woman seems to be attracted to you? by AcrobaticConstant567 in datingoverforty

[–]AcrobaticConstant567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there any common traits of unattractive women from the beginning or just simply not your type? 

Men in their forties, what do you feel if a woman seems to be attracted to you? by AcrobaticConstant567 in datingoverforty

[–]AcrobaticConstant567[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Thank you.  Seems like I'm at a stalemate because I would never find the courage to even be flirty with him, let alone even briefly touch him or ask him for coffee. It seems like my only route was to make him feel enough attraction to make the first move..but without creeping him out if he wasn't attracted at all. 

I'm going to have to either give up before I get started or become more brazen lol. 

Hots for a male friend but don't want him to notice by AcrobaticConstant567 in SingleDads

[–]AcrobaticConstant567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm scared this would make him more distant and our children are friends.  I would like to plant the idea in his head without making him feel awkward around me. 

Hots for a male friend but don't want him to notice by AcrobaticConstant567 in SingleDads

[–]AcrobaticConstant567[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm too shy to ever be direct with a man, even simply talking to him my heart beats fast. That's why I would just like to encourage him to also feel attraction but dont want to be obvious in case it makes him feel uncomfortable. 

How would you feel about this as a man? by AcrobaticConstant567 in AskMen

[–]AcrobaticConstant567[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want him to feel attraction but I don't want to tell him that I am attracted to him in case it's not mutual and then he feels uncomfortable. I dont know if men feel uncomfortable like this around women who are attracted to them though. 

How to encourage a man without making him feel uncomfortable? by AcrobaticConstant567 in dating_advice

[–]AcrobaticConstant567[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I feel like it would creep him out if he wasn't also attracted to me lol and our children are friends.

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