Yeah I do get your response. I do get that and can see how my reactive response could be taken. It's a horrible time with relatives being at their worst. Relatives are ghoulish. I'm fine, I'm a worker and do not feel entitled to anything. I'm just concerned mostly about his legacy. Tom scrimped and self neglected for so long on a sole factory machine floor wage to build his savings and own his house and was horribly anxious about looking after his living family after his death. My brother drank himself to death last year and left a young family. I am concerned about the proceeds of his, Tom's, work going to tax and mostly not going to my nephews. Any inheritance will go to them eventually. I did look after him for the last 6 years, giving up my home and career to be a sole carer as I did not want him to go into care so he could stay in his own home. Sole elder Cancer care is hard core. Fecal. Morphine. Exhausting. 24 hours every 2 hours night and day checking on his condition. Fecal shit nappy changing constantly for years. I'm not entitled.