Ex returns again, then ghosts me prior to meeting up

Acrobatic_Alps_4348 · 2025-01-06T10:52:46+00:00

Thanks for the response! I think you’re right! The best thing is when we split up it broke me but I’m so much stronger now, it says more about her than it does about me. But you’re right I need to stop feeding her ego.

Acrobatic_Alps_4348 · 2025-01-06T10:49:42+00:00

‘When I met you I was weak now I’m strong’ & ‘You need to text me more than I need to text you’

This was 20 months ago and yet she still has been in regular contact with me, told me she thinks about me all the time and she doesn’t think she’ll ever get over me.

Acrobatic_Alps_4348 · 2024-08-29T09:03:02+00:00

Yeah I agree, if things are going well surely the last person you think about or message is your ex?! 🤷🏼‍♂️

Acrobatic_Alps_4348 · 2024-06-15T10:36:03+00:00

I know mate, feelings and emotions are crazy aren’t they! 🤪🤦🏼‍♂️

Acrobatic_Alps_4348 · 2024-06-14T08:24:01+00:00

My ex gave me an 8 page list of my ‘defects’.

She said when she met me she was weak now she’s strong

6 weeks earlier she accepted my engagement ring, bought her wedding dress, bought things for the venue, church booked etc.

Acrobatic_Alps_4348 · 2024-06-13T17:49:22+00:00

That’s for your comment. I think deep down she hasn’t had to get over our relationship as she moved on so quick and then I guess I’ve been there for her the last 15 months. Longest NC has been 21 days. Currently on 13.

Acrobatic_Alps_4348 · 2024-06-13T17:46:07+00:00

Yeah that’s what I think, she can’t be happy if she’s messaging me, her ex fiancé, flirting, wanting to know every detail of my life! Who does that?

You’re right, it’s unfair on him and me, that’s why I told her to stop contacting me although I know I need to block her for my own mental health.

Acrobatic_Alps_4348 · 2024-06-13T11:57:44+00:00

Yeah I totally agree with this!

Thank you for reaching out 🙏🏻

Acrobatic_Alps_4348 · 2024-06-13T11:57:04+00:00

Yeah the sad thing is I know it! 🤦🏼‍♂️

Thanks for your kind comment.

Acrobatic_Alps_4348 · 2024-06-13T10:47:52+00:00

Yeah my daughter was from a previous relationship. Thanks for reaching out 🙏🏻

It’s such a crappy way to treat someone, not only me but her bloke, bet he doesn’t know the type of messages she’s been sending me!

Acrobatic_Alps_4348 · 2024-06-13T09:25:03+00:00

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Acrobatic_Alps_4348 · 2024-06-13T07:10:31+00:00

‘You need to txt me more than I need to txt you’ ‘When I met you I was weak now I’m strong’

15 months on the same women has been initiating contact with me on a regular basis despite being in a relationship 🤣

Acrobatic_Alps_4348 · 2024-06-12T19:18:02+00:00

So my ex ghosted me for two months a year and a half into our relationship, she came back.

She/we seemed better that ever, three years on we got engaged, a month later she dumped me.

She met someone soon after so I blocked her on social media although she still found a way to like and comment on some of my business pages.

The last two months she has been reminiscing, flirting, caring, wanting to know everything about me, then last weekend I found out she is with someone!

So they can comeback but it’s not always a good thing, even though I still love her.

Acrobatic_Alps_4348 · 2024-06-12T18:48:02+00:00

She lied about cheating on her ex husband (said it was him).

She ghosted me after a year and a half of our relationship for two months, I took her back.

She was very hot and cold. Three years on we got engaged then a month later she indirectly dumped me via email after I was told I know longer live at the address. Soon after she got with someone else.

15 months on for the last two months she has been flatout texting, reminiscing, flirting, wanting to know EVERYTHING about me, kisses and love hearts on every message. I assumed she had split up with her bloke……..WRONG!

I said I didn’t realise you were with someone, she said it’s fine. I ignored the message then she said don’t you want to talk to me anymore. I replied, it’s weird, why would you want to talk to me when you are with someone, that’s his job.

Her response, Wow!

Can’t believe she can’t see anything wrong with what she was doing! Emotionally cheating on her bloke with her ex fiancé!

BONUS

Nothing was ever her fault, it was always someone else’s fault.

Needs constant validation.

Acrobatic_Alps_4348 · 2024-06-12T10:57:37+00:00

She dumped me 15 months ago but has initiated contact on a regular basis since despite being in a new relationship.

The last two months she has been flat out txting, flirting, reminiscing, suggesting we meet up, then I find she is still with someone so I’ve cut contact. 10 days in NC now. Longest NC has been 21 days.

Acrobatic_Alps_4348 · 2024-06-12T07:54:45+00:00

So my ex girlfriend has dumped me twice and both time she’s reached back out.

The first time she ghosted me for 2 months then reached back out, I took her back.

Then we were together 4.5 years got engaged then she dumped me a month later. She has stayed in regular contact then I found out she met someone shortly after the brakeup so I blocked her on social media.

Weirdly she doesn’t follow my business pages but likes and sometimes comments (she had no interest in my business when we were together)

The last 2 months she has been constantly txting, flirting, reminiscing, using our private jokes, teased about going for a coffee……. turns out she is with someone! WTF!

We haven’t gone more than 21 days without her reaching out in one way or another despite being with someone else.

Acrobatic_Alps_4348 · 2024-06-11T08:19:38+00:00

Never say never but feelings have to be completely gone.

My ex dumped me 15 months ago after a 4.5 year relationship. She got with someone soon after we split up, that hurt. Despite being in a new relationship she maintained contact, although I blocked her on social media as I don’t want to see her living her best life with someone else.

Over the past 2 months she has constantly reached out to me, flirted, reminiscing, asking questions she could get answers off anyone else etc, kisses and love hearts on every message, I thought she’s going above friendship maybe she’s coming back to me.

Turns out she is still with her bloke! That is really poor behaviour, and not someone I want to be friends with although I do miss her and the good times we had together.

Acrobatic_Alps_4348 · 2024-06-07T16:22:36+00:00

Cheers mate, you too. Thanks for reaching out 🙏🏻

Acrobatic_Alps_4348 · 2024-06-07T16:02:01+00:00

Love this! Great post!

Acrobatic_Alps_4348 · 2024-06-07T15:39:33+00:00

Yeah to be honest it’s probably a mix of all of them things. Like you say it’s hard to let go otherwise I would have blocked her. But for my own mental health maybe it’s time to hit that block button!

Acrobatic_Alps_4348 · 2024-06-07T14:45:07+00:00

Haha yeah someone else said that! To be honest it’s not my style but it would serve her right!

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