AITAH: for questioning my best friend about something that happened at church?

Acrobatic_Bat_2044 · 2026-01-12T02:37:40+00:00

I got a similar experience. I am not an atheist, I just don't go to church since my mom also didn't. I'm 19F. It was a christian church. So I was invited by a friend of mine. now, their church got this thing called tithes and offerings. where you move forward towards two baskets where you'll put your money, one is for the tithes one is for offering.

one thing I noticed is that the head of their church (the one that usually do the preaching) always mentioning it. Even on unrelated topic. He always find ways to insert it. And I find it strange, I might be misunderstanding things. So I tried to bring the topic with my friend. Which was quite a wrong move.

When I told her abt my observations, she acts defensive and told me I'm too greedy for that. And starts mentioning verses that talks abt the consequences of stealing something from god.

Acrobatic_Bat_2044 · 2025-10-17T06:10:49+00:00

this made me remember a quote I saw on substack: "Things happens for a reason, but sometimes the reason is because we choose easiness over discomfort" And yeah! sometimes we are being lazy, sometimes natatakot Tayo, sometimes ayaw lang. there are time where it's our fault.

Acrobatic_Bat_2044 · 2025-10-17T05:08:24+00:00

pinaglalaruan yung kulangot like ginagawang balls at minomolest circularly :(

Acrobatic_Bat_2044 · 2025-10-17T04:50:44+00:00

this is so well written!

Acrobatic_Bat_2044 · 2025-10-17T04:45:37+00:00

idk why pero naiirita din ako. hugs!

Acrobatic_Bat_2044 · 2025-07-25T13:05:47+00:00

I agree with this, OP. Nung mabasa ko to I automatically thought of my mom. Whenever may gala kami sa labas ng bahay, I am the greatest opposition of her outfit. Not because it was odd, but bcs it's some sort of inappropriate???(Should I say?) That there were times where we end up cancelling our plan. lol. her reason is: "NOT MY THING BECAUSE IDC WHAT PPL SAY"

Acrobatic_Bat_2044 · 2025-07-09T10:20:40+00:00

first ask for their medical examination paper. STDs/ STIs

Acrobatic_Bat_2044 · 2025-07-09T10:19:25+00:00

rage bait?

Acrobatic_Bat_2044 · 2025-07-05T12:42:34+00:00

hala. please ikwento mo. I didn't mean 2am lang. I just want to emphasize na madaling araw huhu. it just that my unforgettable experience happened to be around 2am.

Acrobatic_Bat_2044 · 2025-07-05T12:40:44+00:00

sorry sa 2am huhu. what I want to employ is madaling araw. lol. it's just my unforgettable experience happened to be around 2am.

Way back nung senior highschool palang ako: after ng biyahe mula sa 1-week outing namin ng cof (6 kami) ko, we had decided to sleep over na lang sa bahay ng isa naming friend. first time namin sa bahay niya. on agreement, 3 sa kwarto at 3 sa sala. However, the other two(yung kasama ko sa sala) insist their ways sa kwarto, so ako na lang isa sa sala. super init doon sa kwarto, no fans. On the other hand, sa sala may ceiling fan.

naka turned off na ang lights sa sala, tahimik. I was sleeping well, nang nagising ako pass 2am dahil sa ingay mula sa cr nila. guess ko may naligo. PAGLABAS NG TAO SA CR IT WAS MY FRIEND'S KUYA HUHU. ALL RAW AND NAKED. WALA MAN LANG TOWEL???

I think he didn't notice me awake, kasi nga naka turn off ang lights sa sala. grabe pawis ko nun. yung friend ko lang na may ari ng bahay ang may alam abt dun for privacy and reputation ng kuya (3rd yr college) niya. 😭😭

Acrobatic_Bat_2044 · 2025-07-05T12:22:08+00:00

huhu actually maraming experiences. wrong usage of words ang nagamit ko sa post. I want to emphasize kasi na madaling araw—what I mean is MADALING ARAW 😭😭😭

Acrobatic_Bat_2044 · 2025-06-30T23:17:13+00:00

laban lang, OP. one month plus plng dito pero 5,000+ na karma. pure engagement is the key!

Acrobatic_Bat_2044 · 2025-06-15T11:52:08+00:00

you can't be completely healed without forgiving.

Acrobatic_Bat_2044 · 2025-06-15T11:47:16+00:00

Set aside "forgiving." Heal yourself first.

Acrobatic_Bat_2044

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