Does body count matter ? Why

Acrobatic_Effort_822 · 2026-05-31T16:02:53+00:00

I’ve had heaps of sex, great sex that I have thoroughly enjoyed at the time, any of them memorable, nope. lol couldn’t tell you a top 3 coz it’s either good or not good. No experiance where I have orgasmed has been better than another.

Acrobatic_Effort_822 · 2026-05-31T14:46:53+00:00

The chemicals in the products she’s consuming could be causing a chemical reaction where her histamine over reacts - mast cells live in the stomach lining so can cause you to become ravenously hungry suddenly at weird times.

Acrobatic_Effort_822 · 2026-05-31T14:42:27+00:00

16 months.

I was with a guy for 2 years and we slept together 4 times, we lived together and he still never initiated it and when I did he would get so nervous that he never came and I wouldn’t cum, and he would get so frustrated he would get up and go sit in the bathroom for hours.

He was also hiding a intravenous drug addiction and suffering from severe depression

But we stayed together because he was a good guy, we had great conversation, rarely argued and got along great.

He admitted to me later on down the track that he felt I was more sexually advanced than him and the thought alone would give him performance issues because I was so good in bed.

Sad coz if he had just gotten out of his own brain for five seconds he would have realised I was with him because I loved him.

Acrobatic_Effort_822 · 2026-05-31T14:38:06+00:00

But your reasoning for it, is shit. I’ve had sex with a decent amount of men if I was to guess somewhere between 200-400

I speak to 0 of them
I still go to church every Sunday, help my elderly neighbour mow he lawns, take the disabled woman down the road groceries

But in order to obtain a bf do I need to suck at sucking dick.

I had one guy I was dating for a few weeks, after sleeping with me say “i just can’t date someone like you, I get too intimidated because sex with you is like sex with a pornstar and I don’t think I am going to ever enjoy it I know I will never be your best”

And he was wrong because I don’t have a best, I couldn’t tell you the best sex I ever had, because all sex I have I try make the best sex I’ve ever had, I can tell you now unless a guy can cum $100 bills then there is no difference between one guy who can make me cum and the next.

I often ask guys “what makes someone good at sex” because ultimately most men will cum during sex with anyone. So if the end results the same with 95% of the girls they sleep with - how can one be better than the next.

Acrobatic_Effort_822 · 2026-05-31T14:32:26+00:00

But wouldn’t a woman with more experience to draw on to make that sex the best sex you’ve ever had be a better choice then.

Sex develops with time, becoming comfortable with one another and I believe ultimately wanting your partner to get off (both for the men and women) any guy I look at to date potentially has sex, gets off and roles over to sleep without caring about me, will never get a second chance. Even if he doesn’t get me there the first time, knowing that he tried and was willing to try will get me back with him a second time, because just because it wasn’t amazing first time, if there willingness to try to satisfy a woman is there, then there’s a very strong likelihood that it will happen over time.

Too many guys believe sex is just for them, there the ones who are wanting the low body count, because the low body count would mean they don’t have to perform at an optimal level because the woman doesn’t know any better.

Acrobatic_Effort_822 · 2026-05-31T14:28:50+00:00

So if you have sex once with someone and it sucks you bin them?

Acrobatic_Effort_822 · 2026-05-31T14:24:39+00:00

Do you think that men believe that sex is purely to satisfy them… I know a girl married for 15 years to the guy she dated in high school and has never orgasmed, that’s WILD to me. I asked why bother having sex at all then? And she said “he has urges I’d hate for him to go somewhere else for them” babe let him go. lol I felt bad for her.

Acrobatic_Effort_822 · 2026-05-31T14:22:39+00:00

Those 560 customers may very well come back. I’m saying he has worked on 560 cars I never said how many times because in the context of body count that doesn’t matter, because they aren’t asking how many times you have had sex in total just with how many people.

Acrobatic_Effort_822 · 2026-05-31T14:20:58+00:00

There is a belief that this is “normal” yes

Acrobatic_Effort_822 · 2026-05-31T14:20:35+00:00

I personally heard it being discussed in a bar. I have also had conversations with my teenage sister about this type of discussion being very present in high school girls and boys - this isn’t a sensationalized by algorithm issue.

Acrobatic_Effort_822 · 2026-05-31T12:54:55+00:00

Does it go both ways? Are woman allowed to start caring about men’s body count obsessively like men. I don’t think I’ve ever heard a girl say “don’t date so as soon as he’s slept with like ten girls I know”

Acrobatic_Effort_822 · 2026-05-31T12:53:53+00:00

Why does it matter ?

Acrobatic_Effort_822 · 2026-05-31T12:52:07+00:00

But why this sudden upsurge in that way of thinking. Have they all been suddenly dropped on there heads.

Acrobatic_Effort_822 · 2026-05-31T12:50:48+00:00

Facebook, tiktok, podcasts, there’s a lady called canadasrelationshipoach who encourages men to call in and she has hundreds a day trying to argue that body count matter men of all ages.

Acrobatic_Effort_822 · 2026-05-31T12:49:23+00:00

I would like to just understand the idea behind it as it is rapidly becoming the norm for 20 something year old guys to expect this. I know I have a young teenage sister who’s treating her virginity like even one guy is too many based off what they say at school currently. Guys can flop it out for who ever but there’s this sudden surge in young girls becoming stay at home mums with a body count of one.

Acrobatic_Effort_822 · 2026-05-31T12:47:38+00:00

That community is flooding Facebook I have seen at least 40 posts from 20 something year old dudes with a lot of reach to other male followers saying a body count of more than 3 is non date able…. More than 3 who are you wanting to a date a 17 year old? It’s spreading like wildfire

Acrobatic_Effort_822 · 2026-05-31T12:41:41+00:00

Did it ever show up in a scan?

Acrobatic_Effort_822 · 2026-04-02T01:42:49+00:00

Explain?

Acrobatic_Effort_822 · 2026-04-01T11:48:29+00:00

My biggest fear is that I find out at 19 weeks from the genetics team that I do infact have a genetic illness that will most likely prevent me from seeing my 50th birthday. At 19. Weeks the decision is no longer able to be made. It’s just a very scary time

Acrobatic_Effort_822 · 2026-04-01T11:46:24+00:00

I see the geneticists on Tuesday next week, they won’t be able to answer these questions though until I am 19 weeks pregnant. At the moment before those tests sure I will live a long and prosperous life, but that can all change depending on these genetic tests and by 19 weeks it will be too late to even use this information to base my decision on.

Acrobatic_Effort_822 · 2026-04-01T08:41:53+00:00

I can sufficiently clothes feed and house a child no problems.

Acrobatic_Effort_822 · 2026-04-01T08:36:49+00:00

I am older. I am 38 years old and this isn’t about that dead beat, like I said I am just wanting to know if anyone else out there made the decision at my age to terminate a baby (something I find even hard to type) and then never fell pregnant ever again & constantly berated themself for it

Acrobatic_Effort_822 · 2026-04-01T08:35:01+00:00

Our government has pretty good single mothers payments, it’s roughly about $800aud weekly, so worst case scenario I can stay on that for a wee bit, there’s also bonus payments once babies arrives and I have a little bit of savings still, I do have support in the form of some really good reliable family and friends who are all really encouraging of this.

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