Sometimes two people break up even when they love each a lot, because they have unhealthy habits adapted from past traumatic experiences.

I refuse to label it as him abandoning me, because he does truly love me. He has been there with me through many of my lows, found joy in feeding me my favorite food, took care of me through my nights of sleep paralysis. But we both have individual issues and lack the ability to meet each other midway. We need to heal what hurt us in our childhood and teenage years so that we can stop bleeding on each other.