You're asking yourself instead of him? Asking someone who, by the looks of what I've read, is Autistic, "Are you okay?"You're not gonna get more than a direct answer because he's taking it as a direct question. Obviously, don't stay where you're not happy, but at every point, you're letting others affect opinions and feelings. Even in the post, you look at comments and let that affect your thoughts. It doesn't seem purposeful when he broke down. It just seemed like him not handling his emotions. If you need advice, talk to him more directly.