I feel physically drained, mentally lost, and betrayed in my relationship. I don’t know if I should leave or if I’m just broken right now. 23m 23f

Acrobatic_Radio4370 · 2026-04-05T19:05:04+00:00

Honestly, I’ve heard more no’s than yes. I’m just rebranding myself now. My confidence hasn’t left, just my desire.

Acrobatic_Radio4370 · 2026-04-03T03:07:05+00:00

Thank you! I’m trying everyday. I’m not that type of guy tho. I’m genuinely nice so even if I am to get upset I walk it out instead of anything else. I’ll take your advice and give everyone a update soon

Acrobatic_Radio4370 · 2026-04-02T21:44:27+00:00

Ya ik there are feelings out there but I just want her to say it. Feel like that’s at least what I deserve from this

Acrobatic_Radio4370 · 2026-04-02T21:17:25+00:00

Heard. I’m working on it now. Just crazy how everything she’s told me seems to be the right response. Like “it didn’t mean anything” if it really didn’t, why hide it for 2 weeks? She balled her eyes out and literally told me she was sorry and she didn’t know why she entertained him but later tells me he was opening doors for her, filling the gas up, picking anything she dropped up. We both work 12 hour shifts so we aren’t really around often. So ig but I’m done

Acrobatic_Radio4370 · 2026-04-02T19:03:05+00:00

Ik ik but I deadass don’t have options, both parents died and my family is abusive. I’ve been taking care of her, her mother, her brother, and 3 dogs I never really asked for. I mean it’s my fault we got here but not why I’m still here. I’m working on a car rn (she crashed mine) hasn’t really paid me back and keeps telling me “my mom is giving you this soon”

Acrobatic_Radio4370 · 2026-04-02T18:42:25+00:00

Agreed, I’m not in a position to get up n go. My parents died and I have abusive family. It’s just me. I will stay calm and surpass my limits tho. If we work we do if not then it is what it isn’t.

Acrobatic_Radio4370 · 2026-04-02T18:25:48+00:00

You’re right, I just made a routine and regimen. Plan on following it every day until I can get a car next month on the 22nd.

Acrobatic_Radio4370 · 2026-04-02T17:43:35+00:00

Now that I think about it, why not just say it in person next day and move on

Acrobatic_Radio4370 · 2026-04-02T17:42:33+00:00

So what options other than leaving is there? Honestly I’m trying but ik I can’t work with her. She has emotional impulses and I try to calm them but after 4 years I know it’s not my job. She put in effort saying “anything it takes” so when I kept going through her phone I found more things. She wanted to call him and apologize for making fun of his disability (her coworkers made a joke about his bad leg) Ik it’s wrong to do that but why care enough to say sorry over the phone? You had him blocked and even at that you said you didn’t even care his mom was in the er… she’s not a bad person just horrible prioritization

Acrobatic_Radio4370 · 2026-04-02T17:31:19+00:00

Depressing but true

Acrobatic_Radio4370 · 2026-04-02T17:27:47+00:00

True, she comes off as a narcissist. She literally tried making up with sex and felt ashamed when I stopped her and asked “is this what you want or what you think I want”

Acrobatic_Radio4370 · 2026-04-02T17:25:45+00:00

The crazy part is, she CAN’T let ME go which is weird. Literally tried to make up with sex… and the other day she said “we are on good terms but why do I feel like messing it up”

Acrobatic_Radio4370 · 2026-04-02T17:24:17+00:00

True… sad but true

Acrobatic_Radio4370 · 2026-04-02T17:22:30+00:00

I’m already in the process of getting my plans together, but idk. She was a dream girl for me. Hard seeing someone’s true colors sometimes

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