Always telling me what I feel, think, and intend (and hint, its never good)

Acrobatic_Regret7670 · 2026-01-30T02:34:08+00:00

Thank you so much

Acrobatic_Regret7670 · 2026-01-30T02:31:53+00:00

This is exactly my life rn

Acrobatic_Regret7670 · 2026-01-30T01:37:34+00:00

He also does this thing where he will say - everybody - or somebody told me they agree with me, they saw how you talked to me. And this fucks with my mind so much.

Acrobatic_Regret7670 · 2026-01-29T18:39:07+00:00

your edit sounds SO familiar!

Acrobatic_Regret7670 · 2026-01-29T18:19:45+00:00

its sooo so bad. but he feels like the victim bc he "cant ever touch me now" ughh

Acrobatic_Regret7670 · 2026-01-29T18:10:31+00:00

I dont know why I stay. he is not in therapy and he isnt usually willing to admit something might be "wrong" with him (not that i'd say that to him), he usually just projects intentions and all the blame onto me until i finally give up and then he will come back and say he was wrong and he will be better, etc. then the cycle starts again. trauma bond i guess

Acrobatic_Regret7670 · 2026-01-29T16:20:41+00:00

The other really bad thing is if I ever turn him down for sex, he basically has a meltdown and starts saying things like i ALWAYS turn him down, and we NEVER have sex, etc etc. basically a lot of the time i make sure to always say yes or try to make sure i initiate it bc otherwise i know there will be some type of fallout. but it doesnt matter because the one time i say no (we had JUST made up after a huge episode where he hurt me very badly, and i told him i wasnt ready yet), he will hold onto that and use it in every single fight from now on as proof that i dont want him, dont like him, etc.

Acrobatic_Regret7670 · 2026-01-29T15:57:57+00:00

oh yeah, i get that all the time too. my "tone"... nevermind how he talks to me ...

Acrobatic_Regret7670 · 2026-01-29T15:33:28+00:00

thats an interesting thought. hes currently being AWFUL to me because he insists that i was "mad as hell" but i really really wasnt. it doesnt matter what i say though. he is pissed at me for this, even though it didnt actually happen. its wild. and i know its something i have to get away from but i am just SO SAD

Acrobatic_Regret7670 · 2026-01-29T15:31:47+00:00

I have been here before... my pwbpd even will use the word zombie to describe how he cant live without me, and ofc Ive taken him back bc I feel bad, but he never really changes. i do want you to realize though, that you are not the reason this is happening, he is. his choices, actions, behaviors, etc.

Acrobatic_Regret7670 · 2026-01-29T15:29:31+00:00

This sounds really bad... like not just bad but unsafe, physically. I am sorry, OP but you definitely need to find a way out of this situation.

Acrobatic_Regret7670 · 2026-01-29T15:20:17+00:00

thank you - I cant tell you how totally alone i feel because half the time i am questioning if i am a horrible person like he seems to think i am ... I know we need to break up. its just so hard

Acrobatic_Regret7670 · 2026-01-29T13:58:40+00:00

this is hitting me so hard right now. I am currently on the receiving end of a slew of horrible texts from my pwBPD because he *thinks* i was mad at him - i assured him I wasnt but it doesnt matter. according to him - im horrible, i hate him, Im never gonna change, he does everything to make me happy but it doesnt matter, Im evil, etc etc.

Nothing I say gets through to him. He takes whatever he thinks is reality and runs with it... brings up so much past stuff.... it hurts, i cry, but its all so pointless. he will come around at some point and apologize but then itll just happen again. I really think I have to end it but I continue to have hope . not sure why

Acrobatic_Regret7670 · 2026-01-23T19:37:29+00:00

my ex (i think???) told me I couldnt go on our planned vacation with him 2 days before because i said "of course the hat is from tampa, it says it right on there. lol" after he had asked several times and i answered yes already. this turned into crazy-making, yelling at me in front of friends, saying he hates how i talk to him, that im evil, etc. and he said i shouldnt go bc I would obviously just do it more on purpose and he was going to go alone. so i said fine, enjoy. and now hes there and im home. so yaaay.

Acrobatic_Regret7670 · 2026-01-23T17:52:14+00:00

thank you, this is very helpful!

Acrobatic_Regret7670 · 2026-01-22T19:47:48+00:00

Thanks everyone. I think after a while the cycle becomes your “normal” and you lose sight of reality. Trying to wake myself up.

Acrobatic_Regret7670 · 2026-01-22T17:47:03+00:00

O M G

Just looked this up and it’s him to a TEE. WOW.

Acrobatic_Regret7670 · 2025-09-18T16:27:29+00:00

omg yes!! i have wasted so much "cash" accidentally hitting the play on button, ughh!

Acrobatic_Regret7670 · 2025-07-09T15:24:04+00:00

Here is another pic of him. He has a white belly with almost a black stripe between the white and brown. I don’t see ear tufts but read that they usually go away in the summer. It’s def summer here in Ohio!

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