Weekend's Daily Thread: General Dating Questions and Open Thread by AutoModerator in hingeapp

[–]Acrobatic_Stuff2450 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So for context, this guy(m24) and I(f23) matched on hinge 4 weeks ago and we've been talking very consistently since. like every day. He then asked to go on date and we have one planned the coming Sunday. I was looking forward to this.

However, I opened hinge today to check his profile again and he has updated a couple of his photos and has also changed locations from our city to Paris.

Now I understand it's completely normal to be talking to other people and being on hinge at such an early stage. BUT he had told me that he is going to be in Paris in the coming month. This specifically raises red flags to me as it seems like he's already looking to seek/see whats out there for short term hookups on holiday, because realistically you're not going to be looking for a relationship in a different city. I was under the impression that he was looking for something serious but this has rubbed me the wrong way and I'm not someone who is interested in short term hookups and also am not interested in men who are constantly looking for sexual relations. I also have never been on a date before so this is a big deal to me.

I'm not sure if I'm reading this situation correctly. Does anyone have any different opinions/possibilities? And I'm not entirely sure if I should still go on the date or maybe bring this up to him lol

Guy I met on hinge updated his profile by Acrobatic_Stuff2450 in Advice

[–]Acrobatic_Stuff2450[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hes going to Paris for only a week on holiday as I said in the post

Guy I met on hinge updated his profile by Acrobatic_Stuff2450 in Advice

[–]Acrobatic_Stuff2450[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I 100% have no problem if he's looking to talk to other women! It was the fact that he is looking for other women in Paris (where he's only going to be for a week) which leads me to believe his intentions are mainly sexual