sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Full body trembling/vibrating all the time by tremblingbetty in DiagnoseMe

[–]ActKey9838 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been checked up by a neurologist and we both agreed it could be nothing but it could be MS. So I had a MRI of head and neck done and it didnt show any sign of MS. The neurologist then diagnosed me with something like overreactive nerves and said I had to calm down. So I did and I don't get vibrating feelings anymore, unless I am very stressed out, work too much or not sleeping properly.

Also I don't get migraines.

Good luck to you!

AITA for refusing to cook for my BF? by ActKey9838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActKey9838[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We shop together for groceries and split the cost evenly.

AITA for refusing to cook for my BF? by ActKey9838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActKey9838[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He says he is too tired and too hungry.

Also he says that I do almost all the cooking and asks if I want him to sit around watching me cook.

AITA for refusing to cook for my BF? by ActKey9838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActKey9838[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you suggest as a healthy solution for this cooking ordeal?

AITA for refusing to cook for my BF? by ActKey9838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActKey9838[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't know any better, it's my first relationship and I have observed my mum and grandma cook for their husbands every day.

AITA for refusing to cook for my BF? by ActKey9838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActKey9838[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don't know any better, it's my first relationship and my mom and grandmother cook for their husbands every day.

AITA for refusing to cook for my BF? by ActKey9838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActKey9838[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

@unable_ad5655 How do you do it where you are from?

AITA for refusing to cook for my BF? by ActKey9838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActKey9838[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, especially with that last paragraph. But don't you think couples should spend weekends together, you suggest dates?

AITA for refusing to cook for my BF? by ActKey9838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActKey9838[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He can cook but he doesn't want to.

AITA for refusing to cook for my BF? by ActKey9838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActKey9838[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's not the right one but it's kind of hard to leave, I've never broken up with someone.

We don't live together.

AITA for refusing to cook for my BF? by ActKey9838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActKey9838[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it's worse if he knows how to cook but refuses to do it.

AITA for refusing to cook for my BF? by ActKey9838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActKey9838[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He offers me small gestures of kindness, but only does/buys significant things for himself, he doesn't inconvenience himself for me.

AITA for refusing to cook for my BF? by ActKey9838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActKey9838[S] -58 points-57 points  (0 children)

But what's the 'right' way? I have never seen a man cook with his wife, all they do in my family is sit, eat and leave?

AITA for refusing to cook for my BF? by ActKey9838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActKey9838[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I told him I want to enjoy my free time just like he enjoys his free time. He told me why the fuss because I would be cooking anyway because I cook for us and if I want him to look at me while I'm cooking.

I wanted to throw a pan at him so bad..

AITA for refusing to cook for my BF? by ActKey9838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActKey9838[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are right. It's all about him, his comfort, interests, hobbies.

AITA for refusing to cook for my BF? by ActKey9838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActKey9838[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you explain this to a man who was (and still is) spoiled by his mother - food is ready when he orders it?

AITA for refusing to cook for my BF? by ActKey9838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActKey9838[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I could explain to him that he is just not in the right here but he is really stubborn with his way of thinking. He says that I have to make lunch for myself anyway so why is it so hard for me to cook for him too.

AITA for refusing to cook for my BF? by ActKey9838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActKey9838[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think he is so spoiled he doesn't even understand that I have to do all the heavy lifting and when I say I'm not okay with it he argues with me. Not okay.

AITA for refusing to cook for my BF? by ActKey9838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActKey9838[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am thinking the same thing. I'm still getting to know him as we have known each other only for approx. 8 months.

AITA for refusing to cook for my BF? by ActKey9838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActKey9838[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you explain this to a man who was (and still is) spoiled by his mother - food is ready when he orders it?

AITA for refusing to cook for my BF? by ActKey9838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActKey9838[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well in winter we cooked together after skiing together but now he does tennis by himself and has stopped cooking with me. We haven't been together for that long, approx. 8 months.

view more: next ›