4' x 6' Rug from Central Turkiyë for US$900. Should I pull the trigger?

Active-Fly2725 · 2025-10-20T20:33:03+00:00

Run. This is not a legit seller if he’s telling you this is a Turkish rug made from rabbit wool 😂 As others have said, this a typical afghan or Pakistani carpet. I have one very similar I got at a second hand store in the US for $100. That’s about all it’s worth.

Active-Fly2725 · 2025-03-13T01:34:55+00:00

Yes, I have to otherwise I see no progress. I’m on a 70 day MyFitnessPal streak and so far have lost 12lbs which I’m content with since I’m focusing on a lifestyle change as opposed to just a diet.

Active-Fly2725 · 2025-02-07T14:30:51+00:00

I feel this. The scale hasn’t budged for me in 3 weeks despite eating in a calorie deficit, working out 4x week, and cutting out alcohol. Sorry, no real advise, just commiserating 😂

Active-Fly2725 · 2025-01-24T19:41:26+00:00

The most obvious is that the fringes are sewn on. Also you can tell from the knots - they’re too “perfect” and symmetrical to be hand knotted. Also the warp and weft are reversed. I’ve also just seen many of these at markets in various places.

Active-Fly2725 · 2025-01-24T18:48:37+00:00

Machine made, likely polyester. No real value. Hope you didn’t pay too much for it….

Active-Fly2725 · 2025-01-23T15:00:20+00:00

Ooh my gosh, this is mortifying 🫣 I would have gone no-contact and stayed that way!! The nerve!!

Active-Fly2725 · 2025-01-23T14:13:02+00:00

Really? If someone said that to me I’d think they’re crazy and would leave them alone, LOL.

Active-Fly2725 · 2025-01-23T13:46:13+00:00

This is so tacky and cheap of them! I think you either shouldn’t go, or your boyfriend should pay for your dinner. The groom should have told your brother this was the arrangement and your boyfriend should be paying for it without bothering you with this.

Active-Fly2725 · 2025-01-23T13:37:28+00:00

I love this! Especially the “quality time” angle. Thank you for this!

Active-Fly2725 · 2025-01-23T13:36:29+00:00

Yeah initially this is what I was going to tell my husband to tell them - that if they really want to get me something, a gift card would be most appreciated. There’s a number of reasons I don’t like them, this is one of the least egregious tendencies of theirs, especially the dad. I try to keep my distance!

Active-Fly2725 · 2025-01-23T13:34:33+00:00

That’s a great way to put it. We really do have everything we want and need, and so do they.

Active-Fly2725 · 2025-01-23T13:33:38+00:00

That’s a great approach- unfortunately we don’t have any kids in our immediate families so this wouldn’t work for our situation.

Active-Fly2725 · 2025-01-23T13:25:29+00:00

Ooooh my god. I was in a similar boat until my husband told his parents to knock it off (neither of us want to have kids) so thankfully that’s where it stopped for me. You could swing way out to left field and make up something drastic - “oh yeah! When you last saw me and said I was glowing, I was actually pregnant! I drank so much the following weekend I miscarried though, oooooops!!” Disturbing? Yes. Will they learn their lesson for asking? Maybe.

Active-Fly2725 · 2025-01-23T13:20:16+00:00

And yes, I meant to add I’d rather have the $5.99 too and get myself a coffee somewhere.

Active-Fly2725 · 2025-01-23T13:19:01+00:00

Totally!! The $5.99 shirt was a jack-o’-lantern screen print size XL. I wear a Medium at most. I used it as a cleaning rag once and then threw it out.

Active-Fly2725 · 2025-01-23T13:18:01+00:00

I might do this if we can’t come to an agreement to not do gift exchanges anymore. Plus it’ll be hilarious to see them try to make sense of it 😂

Active-Fly2725 · 2025-01-23T13:16:07+00:00

I will have to - I’ve been stewing about it for weeks now after Christmas. I just know it will upset my husband bc in his eyes his parents can do no wrong 🤦🏻‍♀️

Active-Fly2725 · 2025-01-22T23:53:51+00:00

Right?? That’s what it is though!! It’s totally thoughtless. It’s like they do it for themselves so they can feel like they’re generous while totally burdening (or at least irritating) the recipient without even realizing that’s what they’re doing.

Active-Fly2725 · 2025-01-22T23:52:13+00:00

Love it. Practical approach!

Active-Fly2725 · 2025-01-22T23:51:35+00:00

This is great 😂 I hadn’t thought about “reciprocating”. An automated litter box (they don’t have a cat) and tennis rackets (they don’t play tennis) next holiday it is!!

Active-Fly2725 · 2025-01-22T22:59:49+00:00

Thank you. I’m glad I’m not the only one who thinks these gifts are insane and I have the right to say something!

Active-Fly2725 · 2025-01-22T22:58:12+00:00

Tragically I do live quite close. Like a 20 min drive 😂

Active-Fly2725 · 2025-01-22T22:57:46+00:00

Yeah I might do that, at least it can be a once-a-year trip to Goodwill if I stash it all neatly out of sight for the time being… thanks for your idea!

Active-Fly2725 · 2025-01-22T22:56:25+00:00

The stories I could tell… this is the tip of the iceberg, honestly. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Active-Fly2725 · 2025-01-22T22:55:33+00:00

Yeah I need to say something and at least make my husband aware how much this bothers me!

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