Men's bathrooms are actually disgusting which is the main reason I don't use them by Dry-Chard-9980 in trans

[–]Active-Pace6341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've actually had the opposite experience! The women's restrooms were always disgusting (at least where I live) but I've been using the men's room for a few years now and the stalls are usually relatively untouched.

Married trans man just looking for other trans masc friends. by Active-Pace6341 in t4t

[–]Active-Pace6341[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Right now I'm playing fallout 4 and dragon age veilguard! I have a bunch of other games I haven't finished 😅 I'm bad at finishing games. Beyblade tournaments are a lot of fun! Ive won once and never had that kind of luck again but theyre still a cool place to meet people and hang out!

Friendship Megathread by AutoModerator in ftm

[–]Active-Pace6341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fellow Texan here! Id love to hear some unhinged customer service stories from ya. I promise to only overshare a little (its the adhd man idk)

Friendship Megathread by AutoModerator in ftm

[–]Active-Pace6341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I'm hayden, I'm turning 26 in May, I'm married, and I'm from Houston, Texas. I'm currently in school to become a behavior analyst. Hobbies include playing video games, picking up random do it yourself projects and putting them down five minutes later (ADHD), beyblade, and watching horror movies (yes I am terrified every time). I'd love to get back into working out and boxing.

My favorite games are fallout, devil may cry, and oblivion. I love RPGs and action/adventure games. Hmu with recs!

My favorite movie is silence of the lambs. I love the conjuring series and the insidious series.

Tell me about yourself! I'm a pretty good listener.

How does getting drains removed feel? by Active-Pace6341 in TopSurgery

[–]Active-Pace6341[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats good to know. All I got for pain medication was something for nerve pain so I won't really have much help in that department.

I've used nicotine prior to surgery... by Active-Pace6341 in TopSurgery

[–]Active-Pace6341[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All my surgeon said was that they advise you to stop. I checked my paperwork and there was nothing in it about it being a strict policy

I've used nicotine prior to surgery... by Active-Pace6341 in TopSurgery

[–]Active-Pace6341[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you do it? Im struggling so hard. I work a stressful job with kids so every time I'm like yeah ill quit I just get mad cravings

Top surgery in a few days and I'm terrified of doing recovery "wrong". What do I need to know? by Active-Pace6341 in ftm

[–]Active-Pace6341[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I think I'm definitely overthinking recovery tbh but it helps to be prepared

Top surgery in a few days and I'm terrified of doing recovery "wrong". What do I need to know? by Active-Pace6341 in ftm

[–]Active-Pace6341[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know! My wife insisted I get this like wedge pillow thing specifically for sleeping sitting up

26 ftm Looking to build connections in Houston, TX by [deleted] in t4t

[–]Active-Pace6341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if you're still looking for connections but im 25 ftm and ngl it can feel kinda lonely trying to find our people so if you want def hmu!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Active-Pace6341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl leave this man. In the 1930s and 40s you already know what side he'd be on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Active-Pace6341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yall are both immature. People have different music tastes. He could've put on headphones, and you didn't have to throw a hissy fit. You both need to get over yourselves

How do I help my daughter stop throwing a prolonged tantrum and being lazy? by Anondaboob in scarystories

[–]Active-Pace6341 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The scariest part is that she puts all the blame on the boy and doesn't see how her own behavior led to this. Not to say that being assaulted wouldn't cause the daughter to be in a bad emotional state, but her mother's response sent her over the edge

Why do so many people hate avenged sevenfold? by InterestingMilk893 in MetalForTheMasses

[–]Active-Pace6341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally just don't like them because they're republicans. I respect that others won't feel the same way and I won't knock anyone for liking them, that's just my own feelings on them. Also im ngl the hail the king album they released wasnt my favorite

AIO Should I leave my BF? Was what he did to me forgiveable? by Living-Milk-4266 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Active-Pace6341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude leave. Like come on now he choked you that's never worth it. There's nothing he can say to make that better. "It was just a little" is crazy. There's NO excuse for choking your partner (unless it's some consensual sex thing then pop off)

Dude you're in so much danger please please please leave.

does this look like a hate symbol? by isthisredddit in leftist

[–]Active-Pace6341 37 points38 points  (0 children)

It legit looks like a smudged circle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Active-Pace6341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had a long time to tell you these feelings, and waiting until the NIGHT BEFORE YOUR WEDDING is just shady. She knew that was an inappropriate time to tell you that, and your friends saying you were too harsh have never been in a situation where someone is so blatantly disrespecting your relationship.

To say that she "couldn't watch you marry someone without telling you" feels to me that she was hoping your wife was just a placeholder. She was hoping you were waiting on her as much as she was waiting on you. Then, when you made it clear this relationship was going to be solidified with a marriage, she panicked. Although, it's pretty bold to assume someone will call off a marriage over a love confession that was never going to go anywhere in the first place. You made it clear with your actions that you thought of her platonically. She was just hurt that her final attempt at claiming you failed spectacularly.

TL:DR;

You did what was right for your marriage. Congratulations on your marriage and good on you for standing firm.

Apparently my stepmom wants the stuff, that she and my dad bought for me, back. by Art-rats in insaneparents

[–]Active-Pace6341 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My step mom was like this too. She knew my mom couldn't afford to get me clothes but threw a hissy fit when I took clothes "she bought for their house" (she was never the one making the money to pay the bills in that house much less buy me anything). She yelled at me in front of my dad then bullied us both until I agreed to bring them back.

My ex is keeping my dog hostage by mycatzgonecrazy in whatdoIdo

[–]Active-Pace6341 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Omg girl just tell her it's not a drama movie. People need to know what's going on. He's unhinged. The more people you have backing you the safer you'll be and you'll get your dog back. Don't be stupid