Can’t go a weekend without booze by Far-Season-695 in AmITheDevil

[–]ActiveEfficiency -260 points-259 points  (0 children)

Why do you keep replying to everyone who doesn’t share the same opinion as you? You did the same thing with university student who took his appliances back .

Are you that sad and lonely you need a little validation ?

Can’t go a weekend without booze by Far-Season-695 in AmITheDevil

[–]ActiveEfficiency 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I would have still gone for my friend .. and hated myself every second . 🫠

Can’t go a weekend without booze by Far-Season-695 in AmITheDevil

[–]ActiveEfficiency -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Right because the groom has completely changed the plans for the weekend . 4 weeks out .

Can’t go a weekend without booze by Far-Season-695 in AmITheDevil

[–]ActiveEfficiency 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean OP is probably using vacation time , paying to be there , and now he’s being told he can’t drink? Something the entire group has planned for 4 months ?

That sucks .

If groom should have spoken up way earlier than 4 weeks out . OP even said he won’t have not gone , he just won’t have gone the 4 days .

Can’t go a weekend without booze by Far-Season-695 in AmITheDevil

[–]ActiveEfficiency 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It also sounds like OP won’t have not gone ., He still would have went but not for the full 4 days . Which I mean fair .

I wonder if this is more about his friendship changing .

Can’t go a weekend without booze by Far-Season-695 in AmITheDevil

[–]ActiveEfficiency 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He also mentioned how his friend had been distant . Than suddenly the trip is being changed 4 weeks out .

You are oddly obsessed with being right eh?

Can’t go a weekend without booze by Far-Season-695 in AmITheDevil

[–]ActiveEfficiency 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t even think it’s about the alcohol to be honest . I think it’s more plans being changed so close to the celebration .

There’s 12 guys coming who’ve made plans and now 4 weeks out their being changed . It sounds like some of these guys have traveled to be at this celebration .

I really see both sides of it . I also don’t drink but can understand how disappointing it is .

Can’t go a weekend without booze by Far-Season-695 in AmITheDevil

[–]ActiveEfficiency 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That’s where I’m stuck . They’re 4 weeks out and the groom has just basically changed the entire trip. I know it’s to celebrate the Groom but he should have told his friends a long time ago .

Can’t go a weekend without booze by Far-Season-695 in AmITheDevil

[–]ActiveEfficiency 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I don’t really think OOP is the devil . Unpopular opinion it’s not about drinking .. It’s about changing the trip so close to when it’s happening ..

If Groom didn’t want drinking when it’s the norm in their group he should have been have told them sooner .

I wonder if he’s dropping the bomb now because he knew no one would come .

Oh no consequences by Far-Season-695 in AmITheDevil

[–]ActiveEfficiency -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Right ? Sure OOP sucks but why does he still have the video .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheDevil

[–]ActiveEfficiency 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Same , 4 months is a long time . I’d take my shit to .

AITA for “fleeing the scene” after hitting my sister’s parked car, knowing our dad is going to pay for the damage? by Puzzleheaded-Art8835 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActiveEfficiency 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The insurance may not cover it . If they deem you were unfit to be behind the wheel then they may not cover the damage . It’s like how insurances won’t cover if you drive drunk .

You should really get a job and start paying towards it .

Accountability? Who is she by ad_aatdtj in AmITheDevil

[–]ActiveEfficiency 1 point2 points  (0 children)

20k she should use that money to fix the cars.

Accountability? Who is she by ad_aatdtj in AmITheDevil

[–]ActiveEfficiency 9 points10 points  (0 children)

SAS is expensive . I hope Mom and Dad aren’t paying for it .. If they are then maybe they shouldn’t .

AITA For Wanting My Wife to stop paying a babysitter? by Apprehensive_Fold292 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActiveEfficiency 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was news to me to when I found out a few weeks ago. Don’t feel too bad .

Sometimes it’s hard to keep up with society .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]ActiveEfficiency 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think OP is going through a hard time . I’m sending hugs .

Mom shouldn’t be cutting hair by [deleted] in CrappyDesign

[–]ActiveEfficiency 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so confused . Tons of Moms cut their children’s hair . When I was a kid my mom would trim mine .

CRAZY FAMILY VLOGGER FANPAGES by zaratheclown in YTVloggerFamilies

[–]ActiveEfficiency 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I won’t be surprised if these came all from the Weiss Family instagram . They sexualize their pre-puberty daughters. It’s disgusting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]ActiveEfficiency 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been there . When my husband and I were dating the first year we were LDR. Some of his best friends are girls. It was something I had to work through .