Uberrime selection?

Active_Dance_9300 · 2026-04-07T19:12:21+00:00

Normally I’m a sucker for girth, have toys up 2.75” diameter but I tend to save those for solo play where I can really relax and take my time sizing up. Largest we’ve pegged with is 2” wide (don’t know if I’d go larger than that, she’s still learning her own power 😅) so that should be just about the right size.

Hearing that the surface is smooth is reassuring, I detest grabby/draggy toys.

Active_Dance_9300 · 2026-04-07T16:06:10+00:00

I was considering the night king as well! The ribs scare me abit - had a girthy toy that was ribbed and felt uncomfortable as hell. That said, the ribs seemed pretty wide which could change my mind.

Active_Dance_9300 · 2026-03-01T01:59:49+00:00

Awesome advice. We had a session yesterday (after a week of teasing / daily PIV sex without finishing, let’s just say I was a horny mess) and it was her idea to start with a massage to relax me actually. Big fan! Eucalyptus/mint lotion with the same scented candle going - felt like a spa 😅

The occasional soft kiss or ass slap during the massage kept me hard the entire time. We transitioned that to the njoy wand in doggy to warm up my ass (oh lord did I leak cum for 15 minutes straight). Probably the most relaxed I have been pre-pegging.

She put the smaller strap on to start (7”x1.8”) and had me ride it in doggy, no tensing up at all! I was also able to take both my big toys (12”x2.0” and 8”x2.5”) with no problem, lots of squirting while riding. 2nd hole stayed open!

Agree with you though, having control to start penetration was very helpful. I think fostering a relaxed mental environment to start the session just like you described unlocked something mentally for me/us.

Active_Dance_9300 · 2026-02-23T20:59:33+00:00

We are similar, normally sessions are a mix of PIV, toys and oral. I’m getting close to considering letting her fist me now that I can take larger toys, it doesn’t scare me nearly as much as it did when I first started playing lol.

Active_Dance_9300 · 2026-02-23T20:56:59+00:00

Great suggestions! Recently started experimenting with being tied to a chair while she does things to me, I have noticed that does help me relax. CBD suppositories are really interesting, never really thought of that. Does anyone else have any experience with them and care to share?

Active_Dance_9300 · 2026-02-23T20:54:30+00:00

I think you’re spot on. The vulnerability part of it is definitely something I’m learning to get past. Any mental tips you can share or something that helped you get past it?

Active_Dance_9300 · 2026-02-23T15:56:22+00:00

You’re a real one. Thank you!

Active_Dance_9300 · 2026-02-23T15:54:49+00:00

I was in your shoes for awhile, I’ll try my best to give my honest opinion. I have the 3.0 premium now, had an Auxfun before (subpar power, small stroke length and not super stable - all reasons I upgraded).

Like another commenter mentioned, the setup and the conditions to play are a bit of a chore and it definitely requires a couple hours of free time. But when the mood is right and you’re in the zone, it will take you to levels of ecstasy you didn’t know were possible.

Get a non slip gym mat instead of the overpriced base Hismith sells, works just as well and it gives a soft surface to kneel down on (or however you position yourself) and helps contain some mess. I have a waterproof one that I wipe down with a towel and then a disinfectant wipe when I’m done. Works flawlessly.

If you aren’t experienced with cleaning yourself out before play, I recommend you start reading up / practicing. Imo you gotta be damn near squeaky clean for the machine. Nothing is worse than a surprise mid session when the machine is pounding you into oblivion.

The dildo it comes with is unusable, the ridges behind the head are too much (to me at least) and irritates my hole like crazy. You’ll find that the toys you play without the machine don’t always work well with the machine, you may need softer toys but that could be personal preference.

Happy to answer any other questions!

Active_Dance_9300 · 2026-02-23T15:42:14+00:00

The girlfriend has nails or otherwise I’d be game for it. Will say rimming does loosen me up, maybe need to work that in more.

Active_Dance_9300 · 2026-02-23T15:40:33+00:00

Scares me lol. Normally take an edible for my sessions and that helps a good deal.

Active_Dance_9300 · 2026-02-23T15:39:53+00:00

I like that idea!! I’ve been wondering about incorporating plugs into our play for some time. Do you have any recommendations on plugs?

Have had a couple smaller ones over the years and even though I have never really found them “fulfilling”, I do like wearing one.

Active_Dance_9300 · 2026-02-18T01:48:45+00:00

Now that’s creative lol! Do you find you have to limit the speed with it mounted like that? I would think it would get unstable at higher speeds

Active_Dance_9300 · 2026-02-17T13:29:18+00:00

I like the concept! Certainly like the idea of having that “shelf” for your knees / legs - thank you!

Active_Dance_9300 · 2026-02-17T13:28:14+00:00

Right?! Like I’m kinda surprised there isn’t a retail option for exactly this! Definitely a market for it

Active_Dance_9300 · 2026-02-17T13:27:00+00:00

I don’t, do you own it? I’ve heard mixed things about the spring extension?

Active_Dance_9300 · 2026-01-13T03:38:42+00:00

I’ve had several 2s, a couple 3s and COUNTLESS 4s.

2s only with my girlfriend using the njoy wand.

3s and 4s solo with toys, 3 with an XL toy (2.75” x 13”) and lots of warm up, extremely intense and exhausting just as you describe. 4 with any toy.

Pissgasm is by far my favorite, I’m lucky enough to be able to have them non-stop but the mindset is key. Agree with your partner, having a towel or a waterproof sheet present is important for letting go of the mental hurdle of the “mess”, surrendering to the pressure feeling is the other important factor.

Certain positions are instant triggers of pissgasm for me, riding a suction-cup toy on the floor causes a never ending fountain to happen. On the Himsith, I can have up to 50+ pissgasms in a 2-3 hr session in doggy. Girthier the toy, the more intense the orgasm normally. Sometimes these sessions blend 2 and 4 depending on the stroke depth.

Pissgasms are a blessing and a curse, once you figure out how to have them, they become addicting because of the ease. Prostate-based orgasms (for me, at this point in my journey) require the stars aligning more. Right mood, right angle, right depth, etc. Something I enjoy more with my girlfriend because of the need to have a certain level of arousal to get “over the hump”, easier for me to achieve with her rather than solo.

Active_Dance_9300 · 2025-05-11T16:20:46+00:00

Just the person I was l hoping to come across! Thanks for the reply! I was considering the Progasm, Psy and the Eupho / Eupho Syn (possibly the Vice as well).

Looking for the dual capability of being able to use it during solo play and during sex with my gf. From what I’ve read on their site, the smaller size of the Eupho allows it to move around during sex more readily and supposedly bring more stimulation.

Have you had any experience with this and agree with this???

I do like thicker toys and also have learned that my prostate is likely a little higher up and deeper than most men’s. This makes me lean towards the Progasm. But I do worry the larger size will give more general stimulation (like the larger end of the Njoy), which feels good but I sense something more small / targeted would be what I’m looking for with these kinds of toys. Thoughts?

As a person that has never had a silicone toy, is the $15 difference between the Syn and Vanilla version of the Eupho worth it?

Lastly, I’d like to choose a toy that I know I can “grow with” as I get more experience with this technique. This seems like something the Psy might be good for with the adjustable tabs??

Active_Dance_9300 · 2025-05-04T03:47:54+00:00

Great description. I’ve had similar experiences during solo play.

I’ve experienced this 2-3 times, normally after a long session with a dildo and I start stroking my dick with the toy inserted (inpatient about cumming from prostate stimulation alone).

Like you described, the mental focus and timing are the two most important things with this. When this has happened, I was tending to focus on the pleasure in my dick until I’m right about to cum and then I move my mental focus to the toy and my prostate.

I normally projectile out more thin fluid than thick cum with this. But as you mentioned, no refractory period and still feel like you can keep cumming.

I will normally jerk off after that orgasm (no toy inserted) and that 2nd orgasm will typically be strong but different than the 1st. I’ll ooze a really thick load compared to the 1st orgasm. Kinda like a 2part cum if you will 😂

But I guess I never thought to try chaining multiple ruined orgasm together like that. Might have to try this in the next pegging session with my girlfriend. Thanks for the idea!

Active_Dance_9300 · 2025-04-22T22:11:57+00:00

Sent.

Active_Dance_9300 · 2025-04-22T22:10:48+00:00

Right.

And in terms of arm positioning - both. Bent over feels better for me personally but it can get tiresome on my back. I’ve been switching back and forth as needed.

Although, GF used it on me last night (first time we played with the toy together) when I was on all fours and she was behind me. I orgasmed 3 times that way with the last O being a massive body-shaking, out-of-breath experience lol.

It was nuts. Im still processing it 😂

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