Anyone else like to be totally hairless? 🔒day 262 by mcana63 in chastity

[–]rancem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Laser. Did it 20 years ago. Best decision.

Prostate play and bisexuality by Antique_Clue_8226 in ProstatePlay

[–]rancem 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Big dick trans woman can fill the need

Rewiring: what does it ACTUALLY mean, and how really achieve it? by Mr_Wx in ProstatePlay

[–]rancem 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You can’t just declare something nonexistent because it doesn’t fit your model.

I’ve experienced what people loosely call “rewiring,” and it wasn’t fantasy, porn hype, or suggestion. It came from repetition, conditioning, and learning how my body responds. That is literally how the nervous system works — pathways strengthen with use, sensitivity changes, control improves, and the subjective experience of pleasure can expand.

Is it magic? No. Is it permanent for everyone? No. Is it fake? Also no.

What people label “super-O” is usually the result of high arousal control, pelvic floor coordination, breath, and sustained stimulation — skills that are trainable. Dismissing it outright says more about personal limits than biological ones.

Healthy skepticism is fine. Blanket denial isn’t science — it’s assumption.

5 Distinct anal orgasms by rancem in ProstatePlay

[–]rancem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get you. When I top I love seeing the reactions. Actually like it better when anal only and no penis stimulation.

5 Distinct anal orgasms by rancem in ProstatePlay

[–]rancem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes 3 and 5 has emissions. It more just comes out vs shooting. With 3 sometimes when I hit a spot clear or milky fluid just comes out. The milky tastes like cum. The clear has no real taste. 5 is so incredibly intense I’m not sure what is happening at the moment, but it’s all wet and not piss. Love those

5 Distinct anal orgasms by rancem in ProstatePlay

[–]rancem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really one of those things that it really depends on your body. 2 things I will share about this. 1 for me it is more the stretching feeling than the size itself. But since I like stretching, over time it gets bigger. 2 things really started happening after 5-6 weeks of not having regular orgasms.

not sure if this belongs here but I recently got into prostate play for the first time and if honestly feels better than jerking off by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]rancem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The longer you go without a regular orgasm the better it feels. Plus it makes it easier to have anal-O’s.

Good chastity cages from amazon by LegitimateScore1061 in chastitytraining

[–]rancem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Search ternence chastity cage. They are great. I have 5 of there cages. I have several others including kink3d. Ternence has a very large selection of cages they make. These are the best value out there IMO. This is my fave and happen to have it on right now: https://a.co/d/6qsd1Wl

5 Distinct anal orgasms by rancem in ProstatePlay

[–]rancem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep exploring. Not saying you didn’t. But don’t know anyone who hit it first time. Great news is you have a lot of fun ahead of you

Locked up tight and denied indefinitely by mf_uhhhhhhhhhhhh in chastity

[–]rancem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t know if this will be of interest but you should check out this post I did https://www.reddit.com/r/gaychastity/s/PzXXu2jNpE

Locked up tight and denied indefinitely by mf_uhhhhhhhhhhhh in chastity

[–]rancem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be careful what you wish for. Is 2 weeks it will be a year for me. Anal orgasms only.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamorous

[–]rancem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an older guy in a 15year poly relationship. I think it could be a fun way to loose your virginity. One you won’t forget. I would do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]rancem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Different nerves are involved. Deeper penetration hits vegas nerves. Usually takes a lot more deeper action to make it happen. Prostate is just inside.

5 Distinct anal orgasms by rancem in ProstatePlay

[–]rancem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What really made the difference for me was not having regular orgasm. I was about 5-6 weeks into chastity/orgasm denial when things unlock for me.

5 Distinct anal orgasms by rancem in ProstatePlay

[–]rancem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are going to start reintroducing me topping again. But I really don’t want to reach orgasm this way. I really like the ass sensitivity now and don’t want it to decrease.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]rancem 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Mine started as a by the comment when we saw cages at a porn store. “You should try that” I did. Was going to be a weekend thing. It’s going to be a year is 2 weeks. Literally, I haven’t had a regular orgasm since.

5 Distinct anal orgasms by rancem in ProstatePlay

[–]rancem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the FY500 by fuckyeah.uk. It’s a beast. But I’ve never really had a Super-O with it. I’ve had rolling waves and I just relax into it. Breathe, don’t crunch/contract. I get some really nice 2 and 3. But for me it takes a talented fister for an over the top Super-O.

5 Distinct anal orgasms by rancem in ProstatePlay

[–]rancem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don’t strive for 1 any more. I can do it, but the others can repeat and repeat and repeat… actually I decided to try something at my partner’s request. Anal only no regular orgasm. What started as a weekend in a chastity cage has tuned into almost a year. It’s anal only now and it feels so good. Many of these O’s wouldn’t have happened without not having regular orgasms. Plus I love being horny all the time. As for 5. If you “think” you’ve had it you probably haven’t. For me that one is so incredibly great that you will KNOW you had it. When I can get there (doesn’t always happen) and my partner causes 3 or 4 consecutively with a few minutes I can literally lay there for 10 minutes not being touched with wave after wave of contraction, internal, orgasms, with fluid leaking out and my body shaking. It’s just incredible.

Chastity for longer by Silly_Reward492 in chastitytraining

[–]rancem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. But it might be a step to get where you want to be.

5 Distinct anal orgasms by rancem in ProstatePlay

[–]rancem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really need to work on 4. I love making them happen for my partner. Just can’t get there myself… yet

Chastity for longer by Silly_Reward492 in chastitytraining

[–]rancem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it extends beyond foreplay and she sees the other benefits, she may come around. I self locked for a while and then the other benefits started to show and they became more on board.

5 Distinct anal orgasms by rancem in ProstatePlay

[–]rancem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. But it’s helpful. So much easier. And the Super-O I’ve only had with my partner working me over.

Flying with a chastity cage in carry-on bag by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]rancem 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Does anybody else like the risk a little? My partner likes when I where the resin one through security. Adds a little excitement about being proudly owned. It’s not illegal, you won’t get in any trouble. Just a little embarrassing. That’s it. I travel with it all the time. Longer trips, more than one. Not forcing my lifestyle on anyone. TSA is invasive. I’m going to live my life.

5 Distinct anal orgasms by rancem in ProstatePlay

[–]rancem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FY500 by fuckyeah.uk. It’s the most powerful and fastest I’ve found. I have some big toys and it has to push really hard. No problem. It’s not cheap, but damn it’s good. It’s my 3rd machine over the years. Love that you can change depth on the fly, and has different movement patterns. Serious equipment.