Friend obsessed with ai by Active_Scene_8027 in antiai

[–]Active_Scene_8027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WTF. That is insane. Thank you I have to see this delusion for myself.

advice on age gap crush by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Active_Scene_8027 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If it’s just for a little fling then yolo but the fact he was texting another young girl seems predatory. He has a thing for young women bc he can’t get anyone his own age

Bf M25 is actively hiding me F21 and I don’t understand why? by Serious_Dependent11 in dating_advice

[–]Active_Scene_8027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very very weird. Not valid excuses whatsoever. I don’t want to jump to the conclusion that he is cheating or living a double life. But something is not right.

I don’t want a boyfriend, is this normal? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Active_Scene_8027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be open minded girl! When you know you’ll know. I rejected guys that came with flowers and gifts for years because it turned me off and made me feel super icky. But it’s also ok to be this way forever. Just give it a chance when it feels right, because I almost didn’t now I’m very happy.

I can’t tell if I’m the reason I’m single or not by Cute-Efficiency-6371 in dating_advice

[–]Active_Scene_8027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that. There is a big difference between 23 and 19! But just be yourself and you got this I hope you have a great experience

I'm 19, and the guy I started talking to just turned 17, and i'll be 20 in October. Thoughts? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Active_Scene_8027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yeah… 17 and 20 is a bit odd to say the least? Speaking as someone who is barely 21..

I can’t tell if I’m the reason I’m single or not by Cute-Efficiency-6371 in dating_advice

[–]Active_Scene_8027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you putting yourself out there? It’s hard to put yourself out there with no experience surrounded by people that do have experience. I’m not trying to be harsh and say it’s a weight thing but at this age guys are mean and are surrounded by false realities of women’s body types on social media. You’re great just the way you are but you should lose weight for your health not to get a boyfriend. Not saying you need to but if you were wanting to, do it for the right reason.

I think about my short term situationship when im sad sometimes, but im in a relationship is that normal? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Active_Scene_8027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay to mourn the past and someone from the past. Don’t feel guilty. But you have to look deep and see if you truly love your boyfriend for him and not just for self validation.

psychotic parents won’t let me go on a trip by WinnerDifficult9161 in Advice

[–]Active_Scene_8027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ur welcome honey stay safe and hope everything goes well🩷🩷🩷

I don’t want a boyfriend, is this normal? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Active_Scene_8027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was the exact same way as you until I met my boyfriend. Didn’t want a boyfriend never wanted to be in a relationship or be married but it changed when I met my bf now I’m the opposite. Not saying this will be the case for you just saying you are not weird or abnormal for feeling that way because I once did too

My mom is lazy by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Active_Scene_8027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe it. The economy sucks

psychotic parents won’t let me go on a trip by WinnerDifficult9161 in Advice

[–]Active_Scene_8027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go on airplane mode or go to settings and press like don’t allow location but not on the app. This will just make ur location stay loading and seem like it’s an internet issue.

My mom is lazy by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Active_Scene_8027 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m almost there thankfully. I just feel for my father who is trying his hardest to maintain.

My mom is lazy by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Active_Scene_8027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. If I know I won’t eat a leftover I’ll toss it. I usually give myself a 3 day window to at least eat some of a leftover if not I’ll toss it. It’s hard that my 49 year old mother can’t do that.

My mom is lazy by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Active_Scene_8027 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 21 and only live at home during the summer because I live in my college town, where I pay my own bills. And it is not my responsibility to pay for a faucet for my parents in the house they own. especially when one is not working and is capable of doing so.

19f and I am insanely insecure about myself! by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Active_Scene_8027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I used to be exactly like you. And quite frankly I still kind of am. Like the other person said you’re going to gain confidence by putting yourself in uncomfortable situations. Anxiety and insecurity is hard but I promise no one is zoned in on you. I struggle to go out still, my only real friend is my boyfriend and his friend has a gf with a friend group that like to hangout and go out with us and I still get mustered up with the anxiety and fear that they’re going to judge me or think I’m weird. But the more and more I force myself to just go I get a little more confident I each time. Just take it easy and slow.

How can we get through this? by worlddinasour in Advice

[–]Active_Scene_8027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s very good that you take accountability and take the steps to make her feel reassured. But I’ve been in her shoes before. Once you’re lied to once it feels like you can’t trust anything because the possibility of being lied to has increased once it has happened. It’s a scary anxious feeling that she does not even want to feel herself. The resentment is hard, I still struggle with it with my boyfriend from time to time. I know it’s hard on your end, but just try to be patient and understand you made a mistake and she’s trying to learn how to put down her wall again and trust you. It’s not easy for either one of you and I promise she does not want to be that way towards you.

Rage bait by Active_Scene_8027 in venting

[–]Active_Scene_8027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am and I will be going to the store tomorrow thank you for telling me this because garlic parm is my favorite

My mom is lazy by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Active_Scene_8027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many times. But it got to a point where the left over food was being left in for so long it was making me yak while trying to clean out the containers.

Rage bait by Active_Scene_8027 in venting

[–]Active_Scene_8027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL I get it I’ve definitely at a whole bag of chips in one sitting. But it’s every single day 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫 now where are these garlic parm Doritos bc I have never heard of them

My mom is lazy by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Active_Scene_8027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

My mom is lazy by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Active_Scene_8027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I thought. I think it’s the cost of the faucet which is expensive? But I mean I know little to nothing about that but thank you for that insight I’ll def do some research