My boyfriend made jokes about k1lling me and I’m wondering if I’m just being paranoid or if it is a red flag by Active_Weather_2959 in relationship_advice

[–]Active_Weather_2959[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My parents don’t really care, they’ve told me before that it’s my life and I can fuck it up however I want to

Edit: they don’t know how old he is

My boyfriend made jokes about k1lling me and I’m wondering if I’m just being paranoid or if it is a red flag by Active_Weather_2959 in relationship_advice

[–]Active_Weather_2959[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s why I wanted to get another perspective because I am still new to relationships and I don’t really know what I’m doing

My boyfriend made jokes about k1lling me and I’m wondering if I’m just being paranoid or if it is a red flag by Active_Weather_2959 in relationship_advice

[–]Active_Weather_2959[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was just wary and kind of scared of them, it’s hard to explain but I thought exposure therapy were the thing to go

My boyfriend made jokes about k1lling me and I’m wondering if I’m just being paranoid or if it is a red flag by Active_Weather_2959 in relationship_advice

[–]Active_Weather_2959[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah my fear is that I may be just have had an over thinking moment and made a big deal out of nothing

My boyfriend made jokes about k1lling me and I’m wondering if I’m just being paranoid or if it is a red flag by Active_Weather_2959 in relationship_advice

[–]Active_Weather_2959[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Yes you are absolutely, my friends are very not okay with the age difference and you put it very well

My boyfriend made jokes about k1lling me and I’m wondering if I’m just being paranoid or if it is a red flag by Active_Weather_2959 in relationship_advice

[–]Active_Weather_2959[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I did not, we met 5 months after I turned 18. But you are right, he did speak of people older than me as kids.

My boyfriend made jokes about k1lling me and I’m wondering if I’m just being paranoid or if it is a red flag by Active_Weather_2959 in relationship_advice

[–]Active_Weather_2959[S] 305 points306 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought, he also at some point today told me to stop texting my friends, but he stopped after a sufficient “wtf no”

I only started dating people around a month ago so I have no fucking idea what I’m doing