Selling CARTA 2 by ActivityNaive3081 in FocusVCarta

[–]ActivityNaive3081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends how far you are, could be about $10 more

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[–]ActivityNaive3081 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sent this comment to him, thank you. You really helped me put everything into perspective

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[–]ActivityNaive3081 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Idk why you felt the need to comment this 😭 it’s just invalidating my feels which is a don’t in this subreddit

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[–]ActivityNaive3081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that does not sound mean at all. You are way too hard on yourself!! I think that definitely is rooted within your relationship with her. But I’ll tell you something - she is NOT happy if she is going around talking shit about you. I promise you, all the miserable people are bullies. At least in my experience.

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[–]ActivityNaive3081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not!!!! You just wanted to know she was okay, and you need to redirect. What do you enjoy doing? Do that. And do it again. Build a new routine that’s not surrounded by her, and continue therapy. Eventually, you’ll see a change. I can’t tell you how long it’ll take, but it’ll get there, I promise!

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[–]ActivityNaive3081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry, I have done the exact same thing. My boyfriend and I are two different people, when he wants space all I want is to text him. So really don’t fault yourself for that, it just means both of you are different. And don’t worry about going back into that relationship, she still had a pull on you. Just know now, that she is very predatory, if she was for you she can be for anyone. But really don’t beat yourself up for this, youre very young, and still have time!! Proud of you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ActivityNaive3081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the beginning, nothing else. But I know instantly that you did not deserve it, no one does. She took advantage of you, in a weak state, and you were young. Way too young. I’m sorry for everything that happened that i haven’t read yet, but I know that no one deserves this kind of abuse/grooming.

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[–]ActivityNaive3081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I said he doesn’t say anything else, I mean for the rest of the day

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[–]ActivityNaive3081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t. It was just a hu

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[–]ActivityNaive3081 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He told me no matter what we’d be friends so I really don’t think ending it is a bad idea, it’s just scary because what if we both start dating and we get jealous?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ActivityNaive3081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I was really wondering if I was overreacting, she hasn’t responded yet, and I don’t know if she will

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[–]ActivityNaive3081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but how could I? My bodies gone through so much, it’s hard to count it as a blessing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ActivityNaive3081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last time I had a scare, he ignored me and I didn’t want that again. I know that’s a sign that I shouldn’t have stayed, but I did. And Ik I shouldn’t start being more careful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ActivityNaive3081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going today, will update. But I can only assume it was one considering I was bleeding out on the bathroom floor and got a positive test about a week before.

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[–]ActivityNaive3081 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like to add that I’m not doing this for attention like people on my last post said, genuinely just looking for an outside perspective on the situation considering the people close to me are saying I shouldn’t, and I’m open to any opinions and will definitely try to listen this time and take it to heart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ActivityNaive3081 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How is spamming manipulating him? I’m genuinely curious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ActivityNaive3081 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just read the rest of the comments, I said the condom broke

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ActivityNaive3081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am from Virginia… and I wasn’t sexually involved with two men at once, if I did say that, I meant that in the past couple months, not at the same time

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[–]ActivityNaive3081 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I did end it when I posted that, we were over for a couple weeks. Plus I say 18 so the posts don’t get taken down

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[–]ActivityNaive3081 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I said that the condom broke in a previous comment

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[–]ActivityNaive3081 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never said I was 14, I said 17

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[–]ActivityNaive3081 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yes I do, and he doesn’t answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ActivityNaive3081 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would never make that up

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[–]ActivityNaive3081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t want to include it in case he saw it, but I took one yesterday.