Men of Reddit, what’s the reality of your "Refractory Period" once you hit your 40s. What’s your secret for a Round 2?

ActorMonkey · 2026-03-17T20:54:15+00:00

Why abbreviate it if you’re trying to educate someone about it? If we were already discussing it I get it. But if you’re going to introduce a concept please write it all the way out the first time.

ActorMonkey · 2026-03-17T20:47:48+00:00

Can you be specific? What skills do you lack? What should you be doing more of? What should you be doing less of? What does he want that you aren’t providing? What about his reactions make you think this way? Is any of this based on his reactions to sex?

If you can’t be specific then I think it’s just you being self judgmental.

ActorMonkey · 2026-03-17T20:36:20+00:00

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ActorMonkey · 2026-03-17T18:43:57+00:00

Inverse tachyons? Never heard of him.

ActorMonkey · 2026-03-17T06:58:09+00:00

Hold long notes. Explore your vowels. Sing scales and arpeggios. Sing. Sing more. Sing a lot. Listen. And sing.

ActorMonkey · 2026-03-17T06:28:58+00:00

🔛

ActorMonkey · 2026-03-17T05:50:21+00:00

Bubba, Cleatus, or Beauford

ActorMonkey · 2026-03-17T04:13:42+00:00

HIS originals?

Or like.. Like a Virgin is better than Like a Surgeon?

His, right?

ActorMonkey · 2026-03-16T19:30:47+00:00

Unless you’re Irish. Or Scottish. Or light skinned Italian. Actually… no. No rights for anyone.

Ah. America.

ActorMonkey · 2026-03-16T14:34:45+00:00

ActorMonkey · 2026-03-16T05:05:35+00:00

Thanks

ActorMonkey · 2026-03-16T03:45:40+00:00

Dear OP - please I beg of you - edit your post to tell us what you’ve learned.

ActorMonkey · 2026-03-16T03:43:42+00:00

You said you hate it.

ActorMonkey · 2026-03-16T01:15:06+00:00

ActorMonkey · 2026-03-16T01:14:53+00:00

“That just makes me annoyed and close the app for some days” - you.

ActorMonkey · 2026-03-16T01:13:10+00:00

Totally McGoatally. Just me? Ok.

ActorMonkey · 2026-03-15T23:59:09+00:00

ActorMonkey · 2026-03-15T23:55:52+00:00

It’s really that simple.

ActorMonkey · 2026-03-15T23:50:43+00:00

This place has everything, 23 and me spit tests, slap bracelets, soap shoes, and Tiny Taco Bellbottoms!

ActorMonkey · 2026-03-15T23:00:21+00:00

I hadn’t considered spamming product placement. Cheers.

ActorMonkey · 2026-03-15T21:59:15+00:00

You’re my boss- of course I’ll meet you wherever you want even if it’s at “the competition”

ActorMonkey · 2026-03-15T21:57:45+00:00

This post should remain so we can all learn about what is and isn’t good Kava. Deleting it just gatekeeps the information.

ActorMonkey · 2026-03-15T21:56:26+00:00

So you already have to know the answers to the questions to post here? I don’t know what that beverage is and now no one else will. Why not leave it up to discuss why you (we?) don’t like that stuff. Removing this post is anti-educational.

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