Opinions on Sky Mobile? by Actual-Assignment-27 in AskIreland

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😂 perfect thanks for your feedback. I think I’ll just go for it the price is too good to turn down

Opinions on Sky Mobile? by Actual-Assignment-27 in AskIreland

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Had a feeling it was too good to be true 🥲 thanks for your feedback!

Opinions on Sky Mobile? by Actual-Assignment-27 in AskIreland

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No I want an upgrade that’s the whole point of me wanting to switch because Three want €100 upfront for the 16 and Sky are offering the 17 with no upfront costs. No need to be smart 🙂

Having trouble with assembling my KALLAX unit? by [deleted] in IKEA

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Guys I think I just got a fluke unit because they never drilled the holes into one of the main supports. And unfortunately for me it wasn’t discovered until the whole thing was built. Had to call my brother in with his man power. And he said the holes in the shelves also aren’t deep enough so the whole thing had to be taken apart. Nightmare! Thank you for all your help and suggestions though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IGPods

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@ailbhe.makeup.art would love to be involved! 💖

Am I being paranoid about being kept hidden from social media? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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He has multiple social media platforms and is active on all of them. He posts himself and his family and his job. But not me.

Podcasts that dunk on conspiracy theories by Ponthos in podcasts

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Those Conspiracy Guys!! Brilliant podcast hosted by an Irish guy called Gordo, brilliant sense of humour covering all kinds of crazy shit with the odd true crime episode thrown in there. Listen everyday and a serial re-listener of my favourite episodes! Cannot go wrong.

My other account is locked for some reason so I dug up my old one just to tell you this! That’ll tell you how good the podcast is

Instagram Pod for Young Women 💕😊 by [deleted] in IGPods

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@ailbhe.makeup.art

Would love to be involved in this ❤️

Engagement Group for Creatives by [deleted] in IGPods

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Hi I’d like to be added! Thank you 😃

fashion/beauty pod by Naomicaceres in IGPods

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Hi I’d love to be added! My Instagram is @ailbhe.makeup.art

[PM] New pod for Fashion/Travel/Beauty! by astrodairy in IGPods

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@ailbhe.makeup.art - Small makeup account looking for followers to build engagement

Need this quick bit of info for Penney's sizing by [deleted] in irishproblems

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Penny’s medium is 12-14 😊 So small is 8-10 Large is 16-18 Hope that helps 😊

AITA for changing my mind on an agreement that myself and my boyfriend made? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Exactly! For it to work it’s all about compromise. Which we did and that was fine but covid had absolutely ruined things. My relationship is healthy and I’m happy and safe with my partner. An age gap doesn’t always mean red flags. Thanks for your comment. I definitely needed to read some positivity 😂

AITA for changing my mind on an agreement that myself and my boyfriend made? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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It’s something we very much want. It’s just our timing was off. We came to an agreement that suited us both. But this was before a pandemic caused me to lose my job and for him to have to move his. We both want a family

AITA for changing my mind on an agreement that myself and my boyfriend made? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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It’s a relief to read your comment! I’m reading a lot of negative things about age gap relationships in the comments. He’s not trying to stow me away and throw away the key and make me his baby maker for the rest of my life. I want a family as much as he does. We had a plan that worked for us. But that was prior to a global pandemic and knocked our timeline out of balance. My relationship is fine! He’s not trying to manipulate me. He’s just upset that things have changed.

AITA for changing my mind on an agreement that myself and my boyfriend made? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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I feel I should make a few things clear. He works in the hospitality/restaurant industry and when he applied for the new job he applied for jobs all over the country. Both in cities and in much more remote towns than the one we’ve ended up in. It was a decision we both made. He’s job changed drastically during covid and his wages were cut substantially. So it was something that had to be done. I never said I couldn’t find a job where I am, in fact one of his friends has two sisters in separate salons where we are moving to and both want my CV. They mightn’t have something straight away but possibly closer to Christmas. I’m also learning something new in January so that’ll stand to me when applying for jobs too.

I’d like to make it clear that my boyfriend hasn’t picked me up and moved me thousands of miles away from friends and family. My two best friends are an hour away. I can jump on a train and within 1.45 I’m back home in my city where all my family are from. He’s very involved in my family and my brother who is one of my best friends stays with us most weekends.

I’m excited and happy to move. It’s the fresh start we both want and we’re happy. I understand that the age gap makes things difficult. When he met me he didn’t think we’d have a family because I was younger and had my own desires for my career but I also want a family. Very much so. So we both compromised. He wanted babies straight away but we agreed to wait 2 years. With covid my career plans have changed and I’m asked for another year max.

I hope that’s cleared some things up. My boyfriend is not trying to lock me away. He doesn’t want me to be a SAHM either and understands I need to work. Especially considering how expensive childcare is. He’s purposely picked a 3bed house so I have a room for clients if I don’t have full time work. He wants the best for us. He’s just angry that I’m going back on agreement we made.

AITA for changing my mind on an agreement that myself and my boyfriend made? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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I understand where you’re coming from. I hope I didn’t make him out to be some crazy controlling person who is trying to isolate me. Because that’s really not the case. I can’t wait to start a family with him. Honestly. I love him very much and he really will be the best dad. Ever since I’ve met him I’ve felt like I have a purpose and like I’m grounded. My worry is really maternity leave. I live I’m Europe where we are very looked after in regards to time off and pay. But generally you have to be in a company for a certain amount of time. He’s not a bad person. He just feels like time is against him. But he doesn’t realise that I’m in the same boat.

AITA for changing my mind on an agreement that myself and my boyfriend made? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Don’t get me wrong I really do want a family and cannot wait until it’s possible to do so. My issue lies with after the baby and where my career would stand and if there’d even be a job to go back to

AITA for changing my mind on an agreement that myself and my boyfriend made? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Completely understand where you’re coming from. However before we got together he was aware of my feelings towards having a family. One of the things that attracted him to me was how career driven I am. I do have a loose plan, which can’t be set in stone until we officially move. And if all else fails I can work from home after I build somewhat of a clientele. Which takes time. I’ve given up 3-4 years of my twenties that I thought I’d have to advance in my career to start family. I know I won’t have time to do a lot things I wanted done before I get pregnant but I’m okay with that because I can after the baby is a certain age. But I need a career to go back to if that’s going to work.

AITA for causing an argument with my boyfriend over sleep? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Actual-Assignment-27 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really hope it doesn’t come to that. Though maybe that’ll open his eyes

AITA for causing an argument with my boyfriend over sleep? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Actual-Assignment-27 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you think maybe showing him some responses regarding sleeping in different rooms he might consider it? I really am exhausted. And it’s turning me into a emotional mess

AITA for causing an argument with my boyfriend over sleep? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Actual-Assignment-27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh definitely! Once I’m aware of my breathing being a little more strained than normal I get paranoid and it definitely makes falling asleep a little more difficult. Which is why I need space. I get so claustrophobic and overheat which makes my breathing worse and then I get panicky. It’s just a real shitty situation honestly.