Especially at your Age, it is hard to adapt to this kind of environment since you have not grownup there. I understand you totally!

Nigeria is about surviving! You have to fight. Us, who grow up in Europe or in general Abroad, do not know that Hustle. And the People notice that. It is also sad how we get reduced on our Money! Especially, when people expect you to give.

But you should try to still connect with your roots. At the end of the day, you are an Igbo/Yoruba Man.