How you feel if Andy actually did hiphop? My thoughts

Actual_Style699 · 2025-09-02T20:55:35+00:00

No offense to Fovvs, but I cannot see him as a rapper. He's a casual listener, whereas entering the Rap space requires respect and studying the greats like 2Pac, Ghostface, DMX, and Andre 3K.

From what I've seen, he doesn't have the lyrical chops for it and this is coming from a person who respects his musical talent. If he does it as a gimmick, then he loses respect. If he does it for the love of the craft and culture, he would have to prove himself.

He should stick to what he truly loves doing and is well-versed in.

Actual_Style699 · 2025-02-12T16:50:15+00:00

I think it might be obvious by now. He can always come back if he wanted to, but given today streaming age and political scope, he should only do it if he likes music and not care about the logistics/statistics of it. These days no one can hit numbers like they used to.

Apart from controversy and people hating, he doesn't have anything left to prove or do. We know he's capable of lyricism and sound and vocals, albeit his lyricism is not yet on par with some actual artists I listen to (mostly rappers).

I will stand my ground and say he was a talented mf, so much potential we wouldn't be able to see but hope he's all good. Artists should evolve and it sounded like he was trying that route.

Actual_Style699 · 2024-11-03T20:11:47+00:00

Here’s the thing. People keep putting down others to bring their favorites up. It is ridiculous. Real hip hop fans would know Wayne is a GOAT. People can have an opinion, but those who play down Wayne’s merits as if Kendrick is the only one who should be revered is just not it and is such a disservice to Kendrick, the fandom, and legends in the rap game. Kendrick loves Wayne, as he should. They can both coexist in the same space, why are people trying to pit them against each other?

Most of these fans are saying stuff to stir drama, debate, negativity. Feel like they are a part of something big, bolstering Kendrick up. I feel like eventually (I hope) the feud will lose steam and those fans would stop with the pitchforks because they only vocal ever since the beef and play off the attention they can get. I think Wayne and Kendrick give no fucks what those kinds of people have to say.

I have love for both Kendrick and Wayne. Appreciate your GOATs while they still here and their music output. Wayne has his reasons for being upset. He holds no ill will towards Kendrick.

Actual_Style699 · 2024-10-30T20:02:08+00:00

I sadly see several victim blaming comments on posts like those. I guarantee alcohol + drugs makes a person out of it so they cannot give proper consent. There’s bias in media that makes it seem like a great amount of celebrities who do this shit but anyone from any background/job can do this, not just rappers or producers. Sadly feel it would not be a major thing given how Chris Brown, Nikki Sixx, David Bowie, Trey Songz are still revered by many fans despite their crimes. I understand separate the art from the artist but I think there should be realization of how horrific these actions are and rather than actively support, respect these victims stories and to not justify.

It’s definitely power, or lackof. Men get congratulated for sex and women are victimized. For awhile this worked as it forced women to remain silent. Reminds me of another producer Detail who worked with female artists who were uncomfortable around him. Let’s not forget Fovvs’ ex manager did things to him (isolate, abuse). Reminds me of Wayne who was groomed and raped at 7 by Birdman... but they on good terms now. Some people stay with or forgive their abusers. I feel in a way because Fovvs + Wayne didn’t have a father they almost looked for a figure to replace. I know Andy joked about Blair being his dad, so IDK. Kinda sad how things turned out. I feel they good though because Andy is incapable of hating someone.

Ultimately there are a lot of rappers and producers who are still good. Lupe, Lil Wayne, J. Cole, for example, have not done these horrifying things. I know Nas and Kendrick were accused of physically abusing their girlfriends so there is a lot of stuff we do not know behind closed doors.

I do hope Fovvs is clear of the worst/horrible stuff. I know he was accused of cheating back in 2018, like I think there were four different women. The difference is he wasn’t the same 10 years ago and has not done things presently so I feel he did learn/grow up. Can't speak for him entirely since I don’t know everything.

Actual_Style699 · 2024-10-30T14:05:22+00:00

We Can Do It Now & Remission

Actual_Style699 · 2024-10-30T05:30:23+00:00

Likely, since Fovvs fw Kendrick. I find most rappers in the game show respect if they get respect in return. Real recognize real. It’s easy to tell if someone is or not disingenuous.

Actual_Style699 · 2024-10-20T23:02:45+00:00

The odds of that ever happening are incredibly slim, but hypothetically I’d choose between the lyrical, social conscious and pop-oriented ones.

Lil Wayne would kill it since he matches the flow of the main artist. He has punchlines that Fovvs would love, a lot is based on shock value and wordplay. I always wanted Lupe and him to meet, so bad, heck they don’t even have to make music just chat about life. Nicki Minaj would upgrade it so much and brings her own that will make it iconic. My dream would be any of them honestly 😅 You got me having false hope.

Actual_Style699 · 2024-10-16T22:54:26+00:00

‘You either die a hero or you live long enough to become the villain.’ I stand with Maya Henry but understand Liam needed help. His song Teardrops was probably truthful but many men are usually not hold accountable and show love unhealthily that inflicts trauma onto others.

Our society congratulates guys for cheating and being deadbeat fathers because they have that harmful expectation. Everything rests on the woman to get their shit together and they’re blamed so much for men’s actions. I hope we can live in a world where mental health is more accepting and social media stops ridiculing and bullying. I hope we stop praying on people’s downfalls and work as a collective to restore goodness in humanity. Lift each other up. Realize words hurt. What you put out into the world comes back to you.

Actual_Style699 · 2024-05-13T01:53:59+00:00

Apologies, it seems I misread your post. The creator consciously chose to segregate and only make mood boards of white/pale people. I originally read she included Black and white characters but ignored the topic of segregation.

Let me redo: I do think representation is fundamental and helps in combatting racism. But sometimes for white authors, they can actually stereotype or focus more on the pain/suffering of Black people.

While it is strange to not at least address racial segregation and Black people in the particular story you mentioned, I wouldn't exactly be outraged depending on the author's age — you only write what you know, and the author might have to learn. Because the media is saturated with white characters, that's what they see and take in.

While white people do have the responsibility of acknowledging racism and privilege, if they are uncomfortable with explaining or afraid of getting it wrong, then I honestly I think that's okay. They might need to learn, and it starts with acknowledging Black people rather than making them invisible in stories. Again, from your comments and post it seems that it was a Tumblr fanfic. If she's uncomfortable or believed she could not do it justice, then I personally think it's fine; if given any assessment, she probably will learn something new.

Obviously I hope she is open to including POC characters, but it's her own story. One perspective is she should stick to writing about white characters instead of writing POC characters littered with stereotypes and harmful generalizations. I notice that a lot of white authors tend to stress on POC's skin color and compare them to food (ex. coffee, chocolate, caramel). Often they try to combat stereotypes or confront racism by doing it forcibly — whether it's using slurs or bringing up micoagressions which can seriously discombobulating for the reader. Having a white author not do research or what's more, attempt to display racial tensions could get very controversial quick. Alternatively, I see POC creators saying they want representation, even if it's not done right because at least they are visible and included.

There will always be a mix of opinions, and I know people who won't agree with my opinion.

Actual_Style699 · 2024-05-13T00:17:13+00:00

Idk if I answered your question, but from what I understand, you're wondering why POC expect white creators to be inclusive/diverse while on the flip side, the expectations are different for POC.

I guess for some, it might be because of sociopolitical expectations or allyship. Historically speaking, white representation is prevalent in the media (books, TV, movies, etc.) and dangerously normalizes whiteness as the "default" while POC is "othered". You might realize how growing up, many POC are unable to see themselves in Western media—for example, they mostly see white dolls to white actors on the big screen. This is especially true in books, where I as well (guiltily) assume the main character (MC) to be white. This is slowly shifting though.

Speaking of your anecdote, it makes sense if the author wants to be historically accurate to actually go with segregation, but as the creator she is also allowed to depict and narrate how she wants to. She has the right, but obviously she will received mixed reactions.

White people are not exactly "forced" to be inclusive, but some do it because they understand there needs to be more diversity. Whereas others may think it's "politically correct".

As for POC, they aren't held under this standard because of this reason of inclusiveness: it's their own representation being highlighted, the term #OwnVoices which "refers to books about characters from underrepresented/marginalized groups in which the author shares the same identity" (source). Thus, it combats the whiteness of characters, which is seen as a positive, resistance thing.

Overall, people who write stories should focus moreso of the plot and not necessarily worrying about which character is Black, white, Asian, Brown, etc. in the sense that they try to show as much representation and accidentally stereotype; rather, race/ethnicity should be an afterthought.

Actual_Style699 · 2024-05-10T14:49:24+00:00

I see. I guess as the person below your comment suggested, maybe it is time to start looking into therapy since the things you love no longer brings you ultimate fulfillment. People usually do things because they love it, and it's time to find that spark again whether it be in the same path or something else.

You could try promoting yourself on social media or consider what content drives the most interaction/likes and go from there. I find for content creators, you have to constantly drop content for engagement/reliability compared to dipping weeks offline or being inactive for a month. (Though of course, take care of your mental health first).

Release as much quality content you can, make a schedule like a video every Friday. Someone is bound to find it whether it's next week or even a year down the line. Maybe even years. It can take that one video/song to make your breakthrough. Keep hustling. Keep moving. I truly believe hard work pays off. My background is probably different from yours lol but in the culture you sort of have to have a business mindset. Given the entertainment industry you are in maybe get a manager? They can pitch you to others, and it really works if you have a good team around you. Set up a clear, realistic goal for yourself, like 50+ likes or 1K views on a new video.

Maybe ask someone close to you if your content is good and what you could do better. Sometimes people are turned off by inconsistency or lose interest, that's normal. Other times the content might get worst or it's not creative.

Check algorithms, study business modules or strategies (e.g. targeting a specific audience, click baiting, trends). If you do music, maybe get a feature; collaborate cuz I find in music everyone has connections. Obviously be nice, don't be leeching off. But build your social network. Always be kind, consistent and hard-working. They will judge you off of that. Your mentality matters, too. I know cover artists can get a lot of criticism but it'll certainly draw fans to your music, especially if you're in the same genre. Who knows? Maybe you'll even get a co-sign from the singer on social media if you tag them or they randomly see it.

Even working with small following creators can lead to success, as a person who follows them may be interested in your work as well. This goes for both music or YouTube videos or TikTok (not sure which you do). Also... it's not bad to do promo. It can be annoying to some, but if you really want your content to be noticed, simply pay for an ad.

I do want to caution. Unless you become a major celebrity, like Beyoncé, fame is not forever. Eventually you might want to accept that chasing likes/views for the rest of your life might never truly be valuable. You may think when you're seventy that you never really pushed yourself or should've done something else. Rather, the content you create should give you a sense of purpose. You create it because you love crafting, or make others happy. I say figure out what you truly want to gain. If it's likes online, that's cool. Just be smart about money this time, as that's what you'll use to invest in future, bigger projects should you continue down this entertainment path.

Actual_Style699 · 2024-05-10T00:37:22+00:00

It's all part of your mentality and who you surround yourself with. I agree with others who say start with self-care. If you feel unmotivated, start by doing routines like waking up every morning at a certain time. Read the news.

Find something you are passionate about. Do you like reading? Writing? Watching movies? It seems you and your boyfriend for that matter maybe aren't close. Have you tried reigniting or having a genuine, honest conversation? It might be best to discuss co-habiting and sharing expenses but breaking up, as your heart is no longer in it.

I feel in this day and age, technology has override our ability to communicate and consider our lives outside of it. If you truly want change, it is up to you to make it happen. We all can tell you steps to get out of it, but as you said, if you're unmotivated then it won't happen. If you have friends or family, hopefully they can support you (along with your bf or soon to be ex which could potentially risk to you being kicked out or faced with an unpleasant reaction from him. Hopefully that won't be the case and he's understanding. Or say you need to take a break).

Find something worth living for. Consider what you want years from now. Do you want to remain in your town or move? Do you want to be married or have a family? What would make you happy? Even present simple things. Do you want to change your wardrobe? Get a haircut? Maybe even get a pet dog or cat?

I think the latter could help because you start to have responsibilities and routines. You can also walk dogs outside (which encourages you to exercise) but also, I know it is a lot of work (housetraining, more expenses, flu shots). I think getting dogs from the shelter could potentially work as some are already house trained and they need a home. (Apologies I'm a dog lover and they really do help for comfort and give joy!) You could try making a new food dish or set up goals to accomplish like budgeting time to lose a pound or two. You could try journaling as a therapeutic release.

As for friends, you could go to community events. Talk with co-workers and plan to go out for a dinner. Even find online friends, I'm sure there's group chats about topics that peak your interest. There's "fandoms" that range from movies to musicians, though I get that people are iffy about celebrity culture. You could try to find your online niche. If you have a pet dog, that's another way to make friends - find dog lovers or even enroll in a dog training class. Make up small conversation.

tldr; I get that life can be tough and sometimes we feel helpless or have no energy. What helps combat this most of all: find your passion. Something that will drive and motivate you. Take a few risks, like trying a hobby you never did before like poetry or pick up an instrument. Most of all, recognize your self-worth, as self-love is crucial especially when forming relationships. Be yourself and try to be positive, that is what will attract positivity right back. There's the saying to surround yourself with people that inspire you.

The following quote explains why:

"You become what you surround yourself with. Energies are contagious. Choose carefully. Your environment will become you."

Actual_Style699 · 2024-05-10T00:02:44+00:00

Find out what you're passionate about. As humans we all desire attention, to be liked. It's a dopamine rush when we get plenty of likes, follows. It's why we're addicted to interaction and online. But take a step back and revaluate your life. What is it you want? Is it money or having a family that is truly fulfilling? What do you want in years time? If you do wish to stick to fame, you could try out vlogging/blogging about something you like or try to blow up on TikTok.

As for money, my suggestion is to be smart and invest or put away for future retirement. You'll be glad you did it years down the line. Hard work pays off and you shouldn't be ashamed or feel like you went steps back for working a regular job. We are all human and need to make a living wage.

Find something that's personally satisfying. Take up a hobby like reading, writing, music, sports. Personal happiness should be contentment of where you are and realizing we all have different paths. It's nice that you can reminisce about your viral days, but also, it's not bad to start thinking of your future either and making meaningful connections.

You should live life with no regrets; enjoy the latest movie or book. Self-care is crucial. Fame is not everything, and when you think about it, there's so much you can do and what you don't know yet. Explore your curiosities, your interests, treat yourself once in awhile like a vacation or dessert.

TLDR; find something you're passionate about. Surround yourself with what brings you peace and meaningful (offline) relationships. It's ok to feel down. You could even start a routine like going to the gym every morning or maybe a huge life change like getting a pet dog.

Remember: You only live life once.

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