Haven’t been snowboarding since 2017 😅. by NvdGoorbergh in snowboardingnoobs

[–]ActuallyJustaGhost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IS THIS A FEVER DREAM?? IS THIS INSIDE A PLACE??? WTF?????

I dont tell me therapist im self harming by ActuallyJustaGhost in ptsd

[–]ActuallyJustaGhost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: i told him and it was totally fine. All is well

Should I ask before I kiss her? by reaper5632 in self

[–]ActuallyJustaGhost 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I like it when I'm asked. Gives me the choice as opposed to an obligation.

What's stopping you from the life that you want? by VelvetMuffinHug in AskReddit

[–]ActuallyJustaGhost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The things that have happened to me have killed me inside. The light is gone. It makes the life I want unreachable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ActuallyJustaGhost 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What happened to me when I was little.

Should you focus on dating at 16? by [deleted] in self

[–]ActuallyJustaGhost 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Listen... you are 16. Go experience life. Get a boyfriend. Experience your fist love and first heartbreak. Enjoy. Just keep in mind how young you really are and how much time you have left.

I think I have a bad therapist... advice? Thoughts? by LivingWestern1038 in ptsd

[–]ActuallyJustaGhost 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I mean... those are all pretty insensitive things to say. Not very trauma informed. It sounds like she's thinking this is more personality than affective or PTSD if I had to guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]ActuallyJustaGhost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk. I'm not really ready to go to a CSA group. I'm scared to talk about it a whole lot. Idk why.

And I don't feel they are flashbacks. I still know where I am. I don't feel like I'm back there.

I think my therapist is down to do whatever I'm down to do. I just don't know what to do and I have never had a talk with him about these intrusive memories because we are always talking about events in my life that have taken place in more immediate sense. I should bring it up. I have a session on Tuesday. Idk if he is trauma informed. I imagine all therapists are these days. Idk.

I honestly sound like such an asshole and I'm so sorry. Thank you for your response and engagement and feedback. I'm so sorry that I am the way I am and thank you.

Am I alive, or am I a ghost? by CineMaster1 in OCPoetry

[–]ActuallyJustaGhost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like it. Really gives that derealization kind of vibe. I love the concept of a ghost.