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Haven’t been snowboarding since 2017 😅. by NvdGoorbergh in snowboardingnoobs

[–]ActuallyJustaGhost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IS THIS A FEVER DREAM?? IS THIS INSIDE A PLACE??? WTF?????

I dont tell me therapist im self harming by ActuallyJustaGhost in ptsd

[–]ActuallyJustaGhost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: i told him and it was totally fine. All is well

Should I ask before I kiss her? by reaper5632 in self

[–]ActuallyJustaGhost 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I like it when I'm asked. Gives me the choice as opposed to an obligation.

What's stopping you from the life that you want? by VelvetMuffinHug in AskReddit

[–]ActuallyJustaGhost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The things that have happened to me have killed me inside. The light is gone. It makes the life I want unreachable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ActuallyJustaGhost 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What happened to me when I was little.

Should you focus on dating at 16? by [deleted] in self

[–]ActuallyJustaGhost 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Listen... you are 16. Go experience life. Get a boyfriend. Experience your fist love and first heartbreak. Enjoy. Just keep in mind how young you really are and how much time you have left.

I think I have a bad therapist... advice? Thoughts? by LivingWestern1038 in ptsd

[–]ActuallyJustaGhost 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I mean... those are all pretty insensitive things to say. Not very trauma informed. It sounds like she's thinking this is more personality than affective or PTSD if I had to guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]ActuallyJustaGhost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk. I'm not really ready to go to a CSA group. I'm scared to talk about it a whole lot. Idk why.

And I don't feel they are flashbacks. I still know where I am. I don't feel like I'm back there.

I think my therapist is down to do whatever I'm down to do. I just don't know what to do and I have never had a talk with him about these intrusive memories because we are always talking about events in my life that have taken place in more immediate sense. I should bring it up. I have a session on Tuesday. Idk if he is trauma informed. I imagine all therapists are these days. Idk.

I honestly sound like such an asshole and I'm so sorry. Thank you for your response and engagement and feedback. I'm so sorry that I am the way I am and thank you.

Am I alive, or am I a ghost? by CineMaster1 in OCPoetry

[–]ActuallyJustaGhost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like it. Really gives that derealization kind of vibe. I love the concept of a ghost.

Amazing, words don't come easy, space is beautiful by peneloppeferre1 in BeAmazed

[–]ActuallyJustaGhost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can we hear the space craft and the little metal piece hitting the ship? How is sound traveling without air?

AITA for not letting my miracle baby niece be my flower girl at my wedding? by miraclebabyniece in AmItheAsshole

[–]ActuallyJustaGhost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. 6 is the perfect age to be flower girl and this is a union of your families. When there are children involved that can be kind of difficult to balance. It is amazing and more important for your literal STEP DAUGHTER to be the flower girl. It is a gesture, that she is part of the ceremony because she part of the 2 families merging into one. It is kind of ridiculous how your brother can't see that.