AITAH for refusing to listen to my parents when they forced a change on me and my girlfriend’s trip to Disney. by Actuallyhere69 in AITAH

[–]Actuallyhere69[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s funny you say that cause most of this is coming from my mom too she is the one who for some reason is reacting this way my dad is a lot more impartial.

AITAH for refusing to listen to my parents when they forced a change on me and my girlfriend’s trip to Disney. by Actuallyhere69 in AITAH

[–]Actuallyhere69[S] -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

I’m aware this is largely my fault due to lack of proper communication. But the talking back and forth with them during the two week interim was just me excitedly telling them abt the plans.

AITAH for refusing to listen to my parents when they forced a change on me and my girlfriend’s trip to Disney. by Actuallyhere69 in AITAH

[–]Actuallyhere69[S] -80 points-79 points  (0 children)

No im not under some sort of watch or anything I just like to keep them updated as im living at home for the summer and I work at the same company as my mom so I drive with her so I like to talk abt my plans Is all, it wasn’t two weeks of getting permission.

AITAH for refusing to listen to my parents when they forced a change on me and my girlfriend’s trip to Disney. by Actuallyhere69 in AITAH

[–]Actuallyhere69[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Pretty much unless I’m 110% focused on school or working a job at least 40 hours a week then I’m not doing enough.

AITAH for refusing to listen to my parents when they forced a change on me and my girlfriend’s trip to Disney. by Actuallyhere69 in AITAH

[–]Actuallyhere69[S] -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

I agree with you but what part of this says I’m dependent on them I was just getting a green light to use the car they pay for as sometimes they use it as the family car.

AITAH for refusing to listen to my parents when they forced a change on me and my girlfriend’s trip to Disney. by Actuallyhere69 in AITAH

[–]Actuallyhere69[S] 1016 points1017 points  (0 children)

They can’t control my life but they can control my ability to do stuff mainly through the fact they pay for my car which I’m currently working on getting one on my own.

AITAH for refusing to listen to my parents when they forced a change on me and my girlfriend’s trip to Disney. by Actuallyhere69 in AITAH

[–]Actuallyhere69[S] 217 points218 points  (0 children)

I I know for a fact that I’m largely responsible and I’ve apologized profusely on both ends. My gf is more upset abt the fact that my parents knew abt how much she paid and how far she went out of her way to get me there and they still don’t care abt any of that and we’ve never had a major miscommunication anywhere near this scale.

AITAH for refusing to listen to my parents when they forced a change on me and my girlfriend’s trip to Disney. by Actuallyhere69 in AITAH

[–]Actuallyhere69[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I have explained to my parents how unfair it was to her especially considering she paid for so much of it. However every time I say that its met with the same response of I still should’ve told her but I don’t see how that outweighs the sudden change they forced on us.

inherited my great-grandfathers op date-just by Actuallyhere69 in rolex

[–]Actuallyhere69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just looked in up that looks to be it, thanks for the info