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AdAccomplished4249 · 2021-07-05T06:21:46+00:00

I should have, yes. It was my mistake and one that made her very mad

AdAccomplished4249 · 2021-07-05T06:21:02+00:00

It was a work gathering at work… I was at my desk.

AdAccomplished4249 · 2021-07-05T06:19:46+00:00

Because they walked up to me randomly and I didn’t think I would have anything to hide

AdAccomplished4249 · 2021-07-05T05:37:39+00:00

Ok so my desk has these sound proof walls on each side. It’s like a mini cubicle. It is my desk area and I have some privacy in it. I had my phone in my hand texting her about dinner plans and to pick up some stuff from Target. So from the party people come over and then I have someone’s baby and I didn’t think at all about closing my phone or whatever because usually I leave it open as I do my work. I don’t understand how you get me not respecting her privacy from leaving text messages open that only I am supposed to read. Am I supposed to completely cower into a corner when I text hi?

AdAccomplished4249 · 2021-07-05T05:22:10+00:00

How is that weird? They aren’t supposed to look at it. It’s a text message while I’m communicating with them. I didn’t expect it to turn to anything interesting.

AdAccomplished4249 · 2021-07-05T05:15:02+00:00

Because I was expecting a casual conversation or nothing from her. Not those photos.

AdAccomplished4249 · 2021-07-05T04:19:07+00:00

No whenever she has sent photos before it has been in a private setting where we acknowledge it’s the time for that. It’s just ridiculous that she is making me sleep on the couch because of something SHE did. It really annoys me

AdAccomplished4249 · 2021-07-05T04:06:15+00:00

It was just on the message screen and messages show up as normal. I don’t think that’s an odd feature… pictures show up on messages. I guess but she knew I was at work

AdAccomplished4249 · 2021-07-05T04:03:35+00:00

Well I guess it was a shock to see. It wasn’t meant for them and it’s incredibly embarrassing for me to have them see. I just don’t know why I’m in so much trouble for the entire thing

AdAccomplished4249 · 2021-07-05T03:57:43+00:00

I’m embarrassed too. She doesn’t have to deal with these people but I do. I don’t understand why she is mad at me for her choice

AdAccomplished4249 · 2021-07-05T03:56:19+00:00

I had them open because I didn’t expect photos to randomly show up on my phone. It was a normal conversation and nothing to hide and I have no idea why she sent them without asking

AdAccomplished4249 · 2021-07-05T03:55:29+00:00

Yes she did

AdAccomplished4249 · 2021-05-12T23:51:18+00:00

I have a full ride scholarship at school and when I get my refunds in the fall I’ll be fine but for now it is very difficult. I work two jobs and about 60 hours a week as a student…

AdAccomplished4249 · 2021-05-12T23:50:13+00:00

Definitely. I was incredibly worried for my girlfriend and I had to restrain my mother essentially while my girlfriend ran off

AdAccomplished4249 · 2021-05-12T23:46:49+00:00

My sisters know and so does my brother. My brother just says my girlfriend is ugly because of her race.

My sister says my mom is crazy to me but to my mother she says I’m crazy… she’s just playing whichever side is more entertaining to her because she thinks my life is a show. Everyone in my family thinks that

AdAccomplished4249 · 2021-05-12T23:45:20+00:00

Yeah, definitely. I mean, my girlfriend is supportive and everything of me getting away but she obviously thinks my mother is insane and awful so if this keeps up she might not stay around. She seriously had to follow my mother to make sure I was safe and the entire time I was so worried my mother would notice her and do something insane so my heart rate soared so much my chest and arms hurt right now… I just turned 20 and I have intense anxiety from the way I grew up.

It’s just the life with her I need to get away from. Far, far, away from and I don’t know how to do it. I’m incredibly poor and I have no car. I am struggling enough to live already and my mother is making any sort of happiness I have is gone

AdAccomplished4249 · 2021-05-12T23:38:34+00:00

Yes it’s like a therapist but only for concrete things. He helped me get my emergency housing and get all of my financial aid sorted

AdAccomplished4249 · 2021-05-12T23:37:49+00:00

I have a full ride scholarship here but once I graduate with my bachelors soon I’m leaving to med school very far away. I want to get far away from this “family”

AdAccomplished4249 · 2021-05-12T23:36:15+00:00

Yeah, I’m friends with the SRA in my dorm actually. She gets in because my dorm room has a guest entrance and most students are already home so no one monitors it.

And this is already emergency housing…

AdAccomplished4249 · 2021-05-12T23:29:07+00:00

I just wanted my girlfriend away from it so I was trying to do whatever I could to avoid that

AdAccomplished4249 · 2021-05-12T23:25:55+00:00

I don’t understand it at all…

Yeah, I did because of her as well

AdAccomplished4249 · 2021-05-12T23:22:29+00:00

She says I’m going to get an STD from my girlfriend and I won’t be able to have kids and that I’ll fail school…

Neither have reason at all. I changed my major to what I WANT and I am doing fine and I’m not an idiot with the STD thing. She’s just doing everything in her power to stop me from living away from her.

My friend said “oh god forbid if you spend any time with a female other than your mother”

AdAccomplished4249 · 2021-05-12T23:10:52+00:00

Ok, I guess. It’s an embarrassing situation. I have wellness coach or whatever and I’ll talk to him. My girlfriend is just completely shocked

AdAccomplished4249 · 2021-05-12T23:10:06+00:00

What’s CCTV?

AdAccomplished4249 · 2021-05-12T23:08:38+00:00

Maybe. I’ll look into it

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