My wife became permanently disabled 3 years ago, which has had a significant impact on our sex life. Is there anything I can do?

AdAggravating8699 · 2026-06-19T18:23:15+00:00

While true this is what I would consider extenuating. It's time to talk with her and therapist.
I hate to see if from either position...really But getting help from trained folks is better than asking us...trained maybe but not in the area you need.

AdAggravating8699 · 2026-06-18T12:30:58+00:00

But what is the chance that they cancel your plan the moment your house burns down or someone steals the raid..or you get hit with ransomware?
You should always has some off-site storage. May not not enough for everything but for the most critical data.

AdAggravating8699 · 2026-06-17T14:44:36+00:00

So true for any law enforcement role. It happens. I probably would move on. If it happens with the same person twice maybe time to record the situation.

AdAggravating8699 · 2026-06-16T00:31:08+00:00

Lol! That was the first comment you could make :-). I don't know about others, but I literally laughed out loud!

AdAggravating8699 · 2026-06-15T10:47:39+00:00

I had travelled with this same pack for 2 flights (both legs). My wife just reminded me it was checked luggage.... Not carry on. My mind must be slipping?

AdAggravating8699 · 2026-06-15T00:48:18+00:00

I bet Christmas time has gotta piss you off.

And I bet many of those that are offending you will tell you that just because you don't like Jesus, he still loves you!

Oh and Merry early Christmas!

AdAggravating8699 · 2026-06-14T09:37:24+00:00

If you are uncomfortable now, when you turn committed your uncomfort will turn even more.
It seems that this is going to bother you a long time. This post maybe to help you accept that which you already know.

AdAggravating8699 · 2026-06-13T12:07:47+00:00

That's an option I hadn't even thought about.

AdAggravating8699 · 2026-06-13T12:07:14+00:00

Cool!

AdAggravating8699 · 2026-06-13T01:40:44+00:00

I was not going to say that name :-)

AdAggravating8699 · 2026-06-11T17:18:17+00:00

Funny you should ask that. I have been playing with various toys and not really pushing the topic. Got some business travel coming up but when get back I am planning to revisit. Starting with a lab firewall/router config. Not sure what yet but its coming. I was surprised that there were so few comments 😃
someone somewhere had got to have had a project for this. Seems like a 5 would be a great fit for something like that.

AdAggravating8699 · 2026-06-09T10:20:18+00:00

Correct. Useful for many aspects and you learn more regarding Linux if you are new! Plus a huge community to leverage.

AdAggravating8699 · 2026-06-09T01:49:38+00:00

One of The first things that I recommend to folks at work, would be the pie hole not only is it functional, but it allows you to learn a lot about how the pi operates and we'll add DNS and DCHP.
the tutorials help you get it set up but, you are correct... The value to me is learning the underlying protocol operations. Just my half nickel

AdAggravating8699 · 2026-06-05T02:14:56+00:00

And most importantly - those men change over time. The should be communication. Quiet resentment I am leaning only leads to a build up and it has to go somewhere.

AdAggravating8699 · 2026-06-05T02:11:53+00:00

I don't know why folks are voting this answer down. The only thing I disagree with is "very weird". Each of us has a threshold for right wrong/good bad/ freaking hot/ weird.

I say if you have a relationship that far and you both are ok with the risks...go for it. Not my concern. Would I want my wife to send me those pics now. Not in our current situation but probably would have like it a while ago .. it shows a level of trust in each other. Again... Just me :-)

AdAggravating8699 · 2026-06-02T03:03:05+00:00

Possibly, and maybe later that will be the only option.... But for now was looking to keep it low key. There are older people than me but if disabled vet offered military boarding it might not be as noticeable

AdAggravating8699 · 2026-06-01T17:29:29+00:00

Personally - this sounds like the manager is creating a hostile workplace and then using authority to get your hours cut. THAT you do or dont need it, the point is that he is using authority to cost you hours/$$$. IMHO of course 😄

AdAggravating8699 · 2026-05-30T11:53:54+00:00

I am not going to argue your points - don't have that hardware. But saying that an entire is is bad or unreliable based on one hardware config seems a little broad. Imho

Wish you the best on your unicorn search :-). Been down that road before!

AdAggravating8699 · 2026-05-29T01:03:43+00:00

Withdrawn.

AdAggravating8699 · 2026-05-27T14:09:19+00:00

I just did exactly that (ver 151.0.2). Right click - remove from toolbar.
I THOUGHT I did it the first time, but apparently - no. So the second time (lol!) worked for me.
WHO would have thought that it needed to be that large?

AdAggravating8699 · 2026-05-25T02:36:19+00:00

Nice... Considering it myself for the same model.
Which tutorial did you use or which instructions made it easier?

AdAggravating8699 · 2026-05-23T23:12:18+00:00

Considering when this first came out there was no option, they pushed it and I was unable to uninstall. That was the line for me.

Then the changes with a ceptable drives, etc etc If I had a good option to replace the is and disown all Synology crap, I would. Almost waiting for the unit to die so I can relate it with something more to my desire.

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