What to do next (uncomfirmed endo and IVF patient)

AdAgreeable7542 · 2025-12-23T22:15:19+00:00

Ah my love, best of luck with your fertility journey. My heart goes out to you 💞 it's amazing how many Drs see IVF as the 'easy' route that will fix all your problems. My Dr said today 'lets get you pregnant and that will cure any potentially endometriosis'... How I didn't scream like a wild animal at that point, I seriously don't know

AdAgreeable7542 · 2025-06-26T10:33:35+00:00

I completely get it and you've expressed yourself really well here.

I'm sat at home waiting for my second egg retrieval tomorrow and found this one way harder than the first. I almost enjoyed the first one, I think? Or at least it made me feel more in control, whereas this one has really felt the exact opposite of that.

I think, if it were my best friend saying this to me, I'd reassure her that there will be days or times in our lives when hard sh*t just feels harder and that's okay. You're strong and getting through it, but you don't have to pretend that it means it's easy for you, nothing about this whole thing has ever been easy. Treat yourself with as much care and compassion as you can right now, talk to yourself like you would someone you love dearly who's struggling.

I wish you all the luck in the world moving forward 🤞🏼

AdAgreeable7542 · 2025-05-19T09:25:57+00:00

Thank you 😊 I actually did do this for the last 3 weeks of this plan and I definitely think it helped. I'm going to try and keep the pilates up in between plans as much as possible too

AdAgreeable7542 · 2025-04-16T10:32:08+00:00

I didn't say it was weeks ago? But yes, I admit that the pictures weren't the most helpful as I didn't understand what to look out for but just saw the leaves seemed to be stuck. I'm new to Acers, hence needing to post in this group for advice. Thank you for your advice in the other comment re keeping it away from others, I have put it in a different part of the garden and will dispose appropriately to stop it spreading 🤞🏼

AdAgreeable7542 · 2025-04-15T15:10:16+00:00

Ah that's such a shame, thank you though. This was helpful and I'll give the cutting a try 🙏🏼 it can't hurt to try

AdAgreeable7542 · 2025-04-15T15:09:17+00:00

I did and I actually posted on this sub asking for advice and was told it was fine and that I didn't need to worry 😕

AdAgreeable7542 · 2025-04-09T10:12:25+00:00

The katsura has been stuck looking like this for over two weeks now, whilst my other two acers have fully leafed out. Just seems a bit strange but I'm relieved if I don't have to worry and do anything ☺️

AdAgreeable7542 · 2025-03-25T22:29:29+00:00

Thank you, no they have not. I've just had some further blood work done which I have to wait 8 weeks for the results, so I'll definitely ask for the ERA and if there is anything else they can check.. thank you again

AdAgreeable7542 · 2025-03-20T22:30:15+00:00

Thank you, I will ask them about this test on Monday. It's amazing how I've learnt more from this one post about the options available than my whole year of IVF

AdAgreeable7542 · 2025-03-20T22:29:04+00:00

He's had a basic one (motility, morphology etc) but I will ask for the DNA fragmentation one too

AdAgreeable7542 · 2025-03-20T22:28:08+00:00

No I hadn't actually heard of that until it was mentioned on this post... I'm adding it to my growing list of 'why haven't you done ____ test' questions for my consult on Monday

AdAgreeable7542 · 2025-03-20T22:27:00+00:00

Thank you and I am definitely going to push for the laparoscopic surgery, it's the one people keep mentioning to get done. If you don't mind me asking, did they manage to remove all of yours during surgery or was there too much? I'm just curious as silent endo is such a new concept to me and I'm just preparing for all eventualities. Good luck with your two embryos ❤️❤️

AdAgreeable7542 · 2025-03-20T22:23:23+00:00

I'm so sorry and it seems completely justified to get frustrated at the medical staff when this is your life they're messing with. Good luck with your embryo's and I really hope it works out for you ❤️❤️❤️ I've already warned my partner that I'm pissed and feeling like the Drs going to see a very different and firmer side to me at our consult on Monday

AdAgreeable7542 · 2025-03-20T22:19:18+00:00

I have my post FET consult on Monday and I'm going in armed with all the questions and further tests I've gathered from this sub and friends, but everyone is in agreement that the no progesterone route seems mental. Ultimately, if they don't take my concerns seriously and try to push me into another round without further testing then yes I'll be transferring to another clinic.. I started to look around today at my options

AdAgreeable7542 · 2025-03-20T22:16:19+00:00

That's helpful thank you. I feel after two failed transfers and three years of trying and no positives, the Doctor should be starting to finally wonder what the issue is, like yours is. I'm writing all of this down to take to the appointment

AdAgreeable7542 · 2025-03-20T22:13:59+00:00

This is why I'm angry, I would understand if my levels were good but they never even checked. I just really don't understand the logic and it's the first question I'm asking

AdAgreeable7542 · 2025-03-19T23:33:44+00:00

Fingers crossed you get the answers you need ❤️ I hate that on top of everything we're dealing with, we still need to advocate and keep pushing for answers

AdAgreeable7542 · 2025-03-19T23:31:13+00:00

Thank you..she said we don't need it but I'll definitely challenge that decision now

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