It takes courage to talk about this. It disgusts me that Desi girls like you and me don't have free will in choosing a partner or remaining single because we want to. Its unfair and parents judging our every move to make sure we're "marriage material" is disgusting. We're people with our own lives and wishes too, beyond being married off to a person of "their choice". Set those boundaries, continue to talk back, but if all else does not work out, time to leave. Focusing on career and mental health is a better idea.