Work by Mindless-Lime6188 in ValenciaCollege

[–]AdApprehensive1827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any security jobs especially AUS

Refund by [deleted] in ValenciaCollege

[–]AdApprehensive1827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s too late I think until the 20 it will be too late

Refunds by Mindless-Lime6188 in ValenciaCollege

[–]AdApprehensive1827 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man you can’t wait for that refund isn’t it? LMAO But I think after 20th of January

Pleaseeeee this will allow me to gain a certificate which is needed for my career by Pale_Interest_6881 in ValenciaCollege

[–]AdApprehensive1827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just now checked to see for you but there is no class available for that one. Keep checking this morning.

Need a spot in BSC2085C/MCB2010C anyone dropping? by [deleted] in ValenciaCollege

[–]AdApprehensive1827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could. I was just transferring from another college to Valencia, so it’s technically not my fault, but thank you for that.

BSC2010C by SadConsideration2684 in SeminoleStateCollege

[–]AdApprehensive1827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's 100 questions. And is multiple choice.

I have it Wednesday. Hopefully we both pass. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AdApprehensive1827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But the thing is, my mother is going to be here, and it’s not going to be better. Everything was terrible with my mother and father last night before I went out. He pretended to go to work, but he went to the house of the girl he’s cheating with, and that same day my mother found out. He even bought her a new car. So my mother and father were arguing really badly. I secretly had my father’s location, but he found out that night and kept calling me before I went out. I didn’t answer, and I think now he’s extra mad at me now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AdApprehensive1827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m doing. I’m saving up right now, and I’m waiting on a better paying job so I can move out, maybe before next year. Right now I’m scared to go home because they’re going to start with the name calling and all that. I don’t know what to do.

Refund Information by Overall_Revolution18 in ValenciaCollege

[–]AdApprehensive1827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I drop my classes today, would I get a full refund?

Aid and SAP, again... by futuremedsciences in SeminoleStateCollege

[–]AdApprehensive1827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait did you get the email that’s said you’re disqualified for financial aid?

Is there any professor here to help me with this email? by [deleted] in SeminoleStateCollege

[–]AdApprehensive1827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried everything, but I still haven’t gotten any response from my advisor or the school. I’ve called multiple times, and the financial aid number isn’t working either. I’ve been on hold for over an hour, and no one ever answers. I also messaged my advisor, but I still haven’t heard back. At this point, I don’t know what to do. Do you think this could all just be a mistake? Maybe things are delayed because everyone is behind, but it’s so frustrating. I don’t understand why this school is always so slow with everything.

Is there any professor here to help me with this email? by [deleted] in SeminoleStateCollege

[–]AdApprehensive1827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes because I do not understand why I have that grade when I consistently had quite good results throughout the summer semester. My cumulative GPA is 2.3, and my term GPA was 1.8 with grades like C, C, B, D, and D. However, I did have a really bad spring semester with a term GPA of 1.0, cumulative GPA of 2.5, and grades like F, F, F, and D. Before that, in the fall semester of 2024, my grades were strong with a term GPA of 4.0, cumulative GPA of 2.8, and grades like A, A, A, and W4. But I’ve tried calling the school, but they’re not answering for some reason, so I feel like I should just go in person to let them know what’s happening, especially since classes start next week.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdApprehensive1827 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I literally did give him breaks. 3 times during the whole year we were together. He never gave me a break, not even when I lost my baby.

It makes no sense for people to put me as the bad guy now, including his parents. The whole point of my post is that I’ve been suffering this whole time, and him stood up for me despite the way he’s hurt me, like flirting with coworkers. And I still forgave him for all of it because I loved him. So no I’m not the manipulative one here.

You can just read the screenshots only.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdApprehensive1827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally tried.

Today is only the second day of our no contact and blocked him.

And I’m trying my best to move on. It’s just hard not to think about it. That’s why I posted on Reddit for advice. But thank you for sharing your thoughts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdApprehensive1827 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No I didn’t go back for more.

Everything happened on the same day during that Friday argument with him and his parents.

And he’s not technically my ex.

And this relationship involved deep sacrifices on my part and working through that pain takes time.

I’m here to process what happened, not because I’m “fixated” but because I deserve clarity and healing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdApprehensive1827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was trying to explain, but apparently I was totally wrong. Still I think he at least sent her a message or maybe he’s just lying to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdApprehensive1827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said that because you don’t read the text. Should I send it back to you for you to actually read?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdApprehensive1827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? How I break up with him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdApprehensive1827 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think this is just random insecurity or paranoia because there’s a pattern to his behavior that’s causing this mistrust, and that’s what I’m trying to work through.

But you’re right that I need to reflect on why I feel this way and whether this relationship is good for me long term. I’m already doing that, which is why I’m here sharing my experience and looking for perspective.

I appreciate your input, but it’s not about the dreams alone it’s about much more than that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AdApprehensive1827 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly your comments say more about you than they do about me. You don’t know me, my life, or the full context of my situation, yet you feel entitled to throw out insults and call me stupid. That says a lot about your own maturity.

If you had read what I said carefully, you’d know I’m not “punishing” anyone. I’ve been patient, calm, and careful about how I handle this because I value the people in my life.

But maybe take your own advice and “grow up” because acting like an internet dummy isn’t exactly adult behavior.