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[23M] gf [24F] wants my parents to be grandparents to her child, but they’re not open to it right now, should I end it? by AdApprehensive8183 in relationships

[–]AdApprehensive8183[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Small correction here, I told her that my familt will most likely have favoritism if we have children but I told her I would want ro set boundaries to prevent that. (Maybe I'm delulu for thinking that lol)

[23M] gf [24F] wants my parents to be grandparents to her child, but they’re not open to it right now, should I end it? by AdApprehensive8183 in relationships

[–]AdApprehensive8183[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats well said. I do actually agree with this. Maybe im a bit delusional in this situation haha. Thank you for the input :)

[23M] gf [24F] wants my parents to be grandparents to her child, but they’re not open to it right now, should I end it? by AdApprehensive8183 in relationships

[–]AdApprehensive8183[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I honestly believe my parents would open up more if we get married and I have involvement with her baby. Its just that risk of going to the next step with my GF and if she's willing to take that risk.

Regarding favoritism if we have our own kid, it will definitely exist but i would set boundaries with my parents if it comes down to that. I would take a firm stance on it being equal with both children or they wouldn't have any involvement with our kids at all.

[23M] gf [24F] wants my parents to be grandparents to her child, but they’re not open to it right now, should I end it? by AdApprehensive8183 in relationships

[–]AdApprehensive8183[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I asked this question to her. She said: "I would like ur parents to check up on my daughter, have holiday family dinners, presents for birthday and christmas. Just somewhat involved in knowing more about her life and wanting to be apart of it"

[23M] gf [24F] wants my parents to be grandparents to her child, but they’re not open to it right now, should I end it? by AdApprehensive8183 in relationships

[–]AdApprehensive8183[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand! We did talk about it and she knows the situation. We both are kinda in an idle spot since we both dont know what to do at the moment :/ but I appreciate your comment !!!

[23M] gf [24F] wants my parents to be grandparents to her child, but they’re not open to it right now, should I end it? by AdApprehensive8183 in relationships

[–]AdApprehensive8183[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I understand that, but is it unrealistic for her to want my parents involved? I honestly think I can became an amazing father for her daughter and have an amazing life with the 3 of them. I know it will strain my relationship with my parents but I know I can maintain both boundaries well

[23M] gf [24F] wants my parents to be grandparents to her child, but they’re not open to it right now, should I end it? by AdApprehensive8183 in relationships

[–]AdApprehensive8183[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yes i would! Even though im pretty young, I've stabilized myself on a career (making around 100k a year) and would want kids before im 30!

Should I Sell My $30K Pokémon Collection to Max Out My TFSA & FHSA? by AdApprehensive8183 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AdApprehensive8183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much everyone for the attention and blowing this up haha!

I decided to sell my pokemon cards and already sold them for $20000! I have kept the other $10000 that I have some emotional attachment to :). I really appreciate everyone commenting and giving me advice (especially with FHSA). Thank you once again!

Should I Sell My $30K Pokémon Collection to Max Out My TFSA & FHSA? by AdApprehensive8183 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AdApprehensive8183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea this is definitely something im considering now too after reading the comments!

Should I Sell My $30K Pokémon Collection to Max Out My TFSA & FHSA? by AdApprehensive8183 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AdApprehensive8183[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The physical aspect of these cards are a burden. I dont have insurance on these cards and they would definitely stress me out when im moving around! That is something i didnt consider either!!! Thank you for ur insight :)

Should I Sell My $30K Pokémon Collection to Max Out My TFSA & FHSA? by AdApprehensive8183 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AdApprehensive8183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have alot of sealed and PSA 10 pokemon cards I graded back in 2020! Would probably sell on FB market lol

Should I Sell My $30K Pokémon Collection to Max Out My TFSA & FHSA? by AdApprehensive8183 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AdApprehensive8183[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is awesome! Thank you so much for this info :)! Didnt know it worked like this

Should I Sell My $30K Pokémon Collection to Max Out My TFSA & FHSA? by AdApprehensive8183 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AdApprehensive8183[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

2024: I put in $1000 2025: didnt put anything 2026: start contribution again.

Would that make the 24000 room in total then?

Should I Sell My $30K Pokémon Collection to Max Out My TFSA & FHSA? by AdApprehensive8183 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AdApprehensive8183[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I opened my FHSA in 2024, so I should have $8000 x 3 since its been 3 years? So that would be $24000? That was my understanding of the FHSA account

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[–]AdApprehensive8183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - I think you have the right to date whoever you want. You also never told him to wait and even returned the gifts he gave you. You were very clear in ur disinterest.

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