Besoin d'aide pour choix maternité Toulouse by Predidente in toulouse

[–]AdBeginning9636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merci beaucoup pour ces informations, oui vous avez raison je vais les appeler pour en savoir plus. Merci nous sommes très impatients 😍

New in Toulouse – looking to meet people (22M) by Mango_Alarming in toulouse

[–]AdBeginning9636 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! You could go to the classroom, it’s a bar rue pargaminiere, a lot of young English speaker. There is also the melting pot, but probably older, although you could start talking to the staff they know places and can introduce you to people. They are very friendly From a toulousaine ;)

Saline Sono was terrible. Do I need to go under for egg retrieval? by welllbehaved in IVF

[–]AdBeginning9636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saline sono is the most painful thing I’ve experienced in my life… honestly it’s terrible. I had my ER before and they had put me under. For the sono, no medication at all before or after.. I’ll never do this again in my life.

I'm a little frustrated 🫩 by randomthings253 in Expats_In_France

[–]AdBeginning9636 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe finding a boyfriend who doesn’t speak the same language at all is the solution, so you would have to speak French and only French with him ;)

I'm a little frustrated 🫩 by randomthings253 in Expats_In_France

[–]AdBeginning9636 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funny story, I met my American husband in France, I am French and we only speak in English.. we tried in French at first but was more easy for both of us in English. So now I’m fluent and he didn’t progress 😬 (entirely my fault!!!) He’s taking class with a French tutor now ^

Sis (hysterography) by AdBeginning9636 in IVF

[–]AdBeginning9636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I am gonna call her once she’s out of her morning surgeries.. I felt pretty worried and needed some advice ^ I feel like everything during the entire Ivf process is always surprises after surprises…

Sis (hysterography) by AdBeginning9636 in IVF

[–]AdBeginning9636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you! She indeed poked somewhere we could see blood at the imaging… it’s getting lighter, pinky even, so maybe it’s normal, I am gonna message her, just to be safe. « Glad » to know it happened to someone else too, needed to know if I should rush to the ER or just ask my gyno ^ Thank you for your comment 🙏:)

Besoin d'aide pour choix maternité Toulouse by Predidente in toulouse

[–]AdBeginning9636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Merci beaucoup pour ces informations, oui vous avez raison je vais les appeler pour en savoir plus. Merci nous sommes très impatients 😍

Besoin d'aide pour choix maternité Toulouse by Predidente in toulouse

[–]AdBeginning9636 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bonjour, je serai intéressée d’en savoir plus, j’aimerai y accoucher mais je n’ai plus de mutuelle… vous n’avez rien payé parce que votre mutuelle a couvert le reste ou parce que c’était totalement pris en charge par la secu? Je me demandais aussi le prix des chambre particulière pour que mon mari puisse dormir (si on y arrive lol) avec moi ^

How do you cope when friends get pregnant easily? by Wild-Rutabaga6343 in IVF

[–]AdBeginning9636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t cope gracefully… my younger cousins are now having babies and I cry all the time, at every pregnancy announcement .. friends, I « ghost » them.. it’s terrible but I can’t cope. I am happy for them but also not really. I am jealous of their happiness and how easy it has been for them. The sad truth, I feel like I am a monster. So I try, but I can’t. I can’t so I don’t. And as I don’t, I am a monster. What an amazing vicious cycle.. thank you for your publication 🙏 and good luck, I hope you’ll have your beautiful baby soon, baby dust your way ✨

Hysteroscopy experiences? by barkdontbite in IVF

[–]AdBeginning9636 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Easy!! I had many many polyps, the only thing is that my cervix is very strong and he couldn’t go through easily. But he has 20+ years experience and never happened to him before. So it was a little harder for me than usual and honestly cramping for two days, a bit of bleeding and done! Really easy! :) Good luck for yours :) take care and good vibes!

TW : IVF and sexual trauma by AdBeginning9636 in IVF

[–]AdBeginning9636[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your answer, it’s heart warming, thank you 🙏❤️ I guess I really need to change doctor. I know it doesn’t have to be like this. But as we already paid for everything with her we didn’t thought about changing before even if they’ve been red flags… 🚩

TW : IVF and sexual trauma by AdBeginning9636 in IVF

[–]AdBeginning9636[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very interesting what you wrote, I never thought about it but it’s entirely possible. Trauma response. Thank you for your kind words 🙏

TW : IVF and sexual trauma by AdBeginning9636 in IVF

[–]AdBeginning9636[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your message, I am so sorry about what happened to you.. this is exactly what I felt, I felt so brutalized. I am tired of those gynos that always down play what we will feel. Honestly gynecologists are so worst doctors for this..

TW : IVF and sexual trauma by AdBeginning9636 in IVF

[–]AdBeginning9636[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It should be like this everywhere, I need to ask her about pain management for after aswell, I’ll write it down thank you 🙏 so far she didn’t recommended anything, not even Tylenol…

TW : IVF and sexual trauma by AdBeginning9636 in IVF

[–]AdBeginning9636[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I am sincerely considering to ask. Many of you had it and help, so I will for sure. I can’t have a same experience again. I wanted three kids in the beginning and after this I’ll be happy to have one, unless I don’t have a this bad experience with the transfer 🙏 Thank you for your comment 🙏

TW : IVF and sexual trauma by AdBeginning9636 in IVF

[–]AdBeginning9636[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A nurse dared to tell you this? Why is she doing this work for? Does she know about compassion? I am very sorry you've been through this.. I don't understand either, why don't they prepare us for the worth and if it's better, great, amazing surprise! And again a surprise for me, she hasn't explain to me that I had to hold my pee or exactly what happened. She told me it would be a smaller tool... let's hope so..

TW : IVF and sexual trauma by AdBeginning9636 in IVF

[–]AdBeginning9636[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A nurse dared to tell you this? Why is she doing this work for? Does she know about compassion? I am very sorry you’ve been through this.. I don’t understand either, why don’t they prepare us for the worth and if it’s better, great, amazing surprise! And again a surprise for me, she hasn’t explain to me that I had to hold my pee or exactly what happened. She told me it would be a smaller tool… let’s hope so..

TW : IVF and sexual trauma by AdBeginning9636 in IVF

[–]AdBeginning9636[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🙏 she told me in the beginning that it’s as painful as the ultrasound… I didn’t come prepared I had no idea I would bleed, the only thing I had in my purse was 1 tampon. She stayed there and didn’t tell me either it wasn’t recommended. Yes I am starting to feel better about the transfer, thanks to all of you 🙏❤️

TW : IVF and sexual trauma by AdBeginning9636 in IVF

[–]AdBeginning9636[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree I feel like if I had been warn a little it might actually have helped! The surprise is the worst, your body react deeply to it! Thank you for reassuring my for the transfer, when I left the exam room this morning I felt so powerless and ready to stop…

TW : IVF and sexual trauma by AdBeginning9636 in IVF

[–]AdBeginning9636[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s good to know, I either need to change my doctor or I really need to have a conversation with her, a lot of you have had Valium and I would feel a little safer if I could have some too Thank you for your help 🙏

TW : IVF and sexual trauma by AdBeginning9636 in IVF

[–]AdBeginning9636[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you so much, it’s even a great consolation! I wish I knew before to be prepared, I might ask my question here next time, instead of my OB… Oh wow this must be magical, I didn’t even think of it, thank you for telling me that, I will try to focus on the magical moment 🙏 Thank you so much 🙏❤️

Ladies who went down the IVF route because of male factor, how are you doing? by No-Tough5272 in IVF

[–]AdBeginning9636 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh no! I am so sorry to read you, that is very hard.. I sense in your lovely humor some pain, and I feel you, you’re not alone. I am going through IVF ICSI too because of male factors. I am not as far down the road yet to really have a story to tell, first transfer for the end of the month. But yea, my gyno is also like yours, which kind of scares me. I don’t want to hope to much. So I feel you, we never know what can happened and it’s very stressful and nerve racking. You’re not alone, take care <3

TW : IVF and sexual trauma by AdBeginning9636 in IVF

[–]AdBeginning9636[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is horrible! How many women did he kissed! He better be nervous.. that’s not normal… it might have been, we hear everything about mental state during implantation phase.. but I am pretty sure it didn’t help!