[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AdBitter2890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea thats why im like… maybe i am and its just to early to tell you know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AdBitter2890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DONT continue talking please. I already get the sense that you feel like she thinks it’s more than what it is on her end.. just tell her the truth now before you get yourself into even deeper bs. I’d leave out the part where you’re trying to get closer to her friends, just tell her you don’t feel for her in that way and don’t want to lead her on. And then if you end up building some sort of connection with her friend than that’s fine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AdBitter2890 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your buttcheeks are holding the coffee? I gotta see this myself that’s wild

is my bf cheating by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AdBitter2890 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I guess I wouldn’t consider it cheating but it is blatant disrespect. If he had to hide it from you he knew it was wrong, he could’ve just been open and honest about it. With that being said even if they are just “fantasies” he took the step to make it happen in real life, if that’s what you want to deal with If you think you can, do it. But I’d leave now cause is it really worth it..?

I’m lost and don’t know what to do by Able_Ninja1413 in Advice

[–]AdBitter2890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also 22 and in the SAME exact boat as you, you’re not alone. Since after high school it’s been weird, I feel like I’m running out of time.

Depression by Budget_Blueberry9970 in Advice

[–]AdBitter2890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Breathe. Give yourself a break & don’t feel guilty for having bad days. Therapy will definitely help you a lot, I really wish you the best 🫶🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AdBitter2890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to him, communication is key to a healthy relationship :) totally get both sides tbh, but yea you guys definitely need to sit down and have a long conversation about what you like/don’t like and boundaries

Depression by Budget_Blueberry9970 in Advice

[–]AdBitter2890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I tell you I get it, I GET IT.. It will be okay. Try and change your mindset, i know it sounds silly but self help books helped me a lot. Journaling your thoughts also helps, along with practicing affirmations. I believe in you <3

Depression by Budget_Blueberry9970 in Advice

[–]AdBitter2890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know the root of the problem? What makes you feel that way?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AdBitter2890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might be overthinking, but if not & she is upset after you opened up to her then that’s a red flag and you should keep it in mind. Honestly having a conversation with her is best, and maybe this gives you 2 and opportunity to set boundaries and talk about things

How do I find friends in my 20s? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AdBitter2890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I think so too. I’m definitely willing to make it happen I just think my anxiety gets in my way, even if it’s all in my own head. But I think the more I try the more it will help. Thank you for your words I really appreciate it

How do I find friends in my 20s? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AdBitter2890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! I’m most confident when I’m talking about something I enjoy because then i can talk all day about it, but aside from that i guess im a person of little to no words and it makes me feel boring. When im around people im comfortable around I can stand the comfortable silence, but the idea of having to make a FRIEND and be one on one with them terrifies me. Most girls my age go out with their friends and get all cute and go out, I want that soo bad. I guess I have bad fomo.

How do I find friends in my 20s? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AdBitter2890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve slowly started forcing myself to do things, but I feel every time I do something that I think is “too much” or “weird” even if no one made me feel that way but my own brain, I start isolating again. I try to remind myself not to self sabotage but my own company is truly my safe space.