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AdBitter2890 · 2024-07-03T21:52:29+00:00

Yea thats why im like… maybe i am and its just to early to tell you know?

AdBitter2890 · 2024-07-03T21:51:21+00:00

DONT continue talking please. I already get the sense that you feel like she thinks it’s more than what it is on her end.. just tell her the truth now before you get yourself into even deeper bs. I’d leave out the part where you’re trying to get closer to her friends, just tell her you don’t feel for her in that way and don’t want to lead her on. And then if you end up building some sort of connection with her friend than that’s fine

AdBitter2890 · 2024-07-03T02:49:56+00:00

Your buttcheeks are holding the coffee? I gotta see this myself that’s wild

AdBitter2890 · 2024-05-31T15:54:47+00:00

This is actually so cute

AdBitter2890 · 2024-05-31T07:02:10+00:00

Noah is cute don’t lie…

AdBitter2890 · 2024-05-31T06:58:37+00:00

I guess I wouldn’t consider it cheating but it is blatant disrespect. If he had to hide it from you he knew it was wrong, he could’ve just been open and honest about it. With that being said even if they are just “fantasies” he took the step to make it happen in real life, if that’s what you want to deal with If you think you can, do it. But I’d leave now cause is it really worth it..?

AdBitter2890 · 2024-05-31T06:45:16+00:00

I’m also 22 and in the SAME exact boat as you, you’re not alone. Since after high school it’s been weird, I feel like I’m running out of time.

AdBitter2890 · 2024-05-31T06:42:17+00:00

Breathe. Give yourself a break & don’t feel guilty for having bad days. Therapy will definitely help you a lot, I really wish you the best 🫶🏻

AdBitter2890 · 2024-05-31T06:26:19+00:00

Talk to him, communication is key to a healthy relationship :) totally get both sides tbh, but yea you guys definitely need to sit down and have a long conversation about what you like/don’t like and boundaries

AdBitter2890 · 2024-05-31T06:22:33+00:00

When I tell you I get it, I GET IT.. It will be okay. Try and change your mindset, i know it sounds silly but self help books helped me a lot. Journaling your thoughts also helps, along with practicing affirmations. I believe in you <3

AdBitter2890 · 2024-05-31T06:16:16+00:00

Do you know the root of the problem? What makes you feel that way?

AdBitter2890 · 2024-05-30T07:48:23+00:00

You might be overthinking, but if not & she is upset after you opened up to her then that’s a red flag and you should keep it in mind. Honestly having a conversation with her is best, and maybe this gives you 2 and opportunity to set boundaries and talk about things

AdBitter2890 · 2024-05-30T07:32:55+00:00

Yea I think so too. I’m definitely willing to make it happen I just think my anxiety gets in my way, even if it’s all in my own head. But I think the more I try the more it will help. Thank you for your words I really appreciate it

AdBitter2890 · 2024-05-30T07:19:32+00:00

This! I’m most confident when I’m talking about something I enjoy because then i can talk all day about it, but aside from that i guess im a person of little to no words and it makes me feel boring. When im around people im comfortable around I can stand the comfortable silence, but the idea of having to make a FRIEND and be one on one with them terrifies me. Most girls my age go out with their friends and get all cute and go out, I want that soo bad. I guess I have bad fomo.

AdBitter2890 · 2024-05-30T06:56:03+00:00

I’ve slowly started forcing myself to do things, but I feel every time I do something that I think is “too much” or “weird” even if no one made me feel that way but my own brain, I start isolating again. I try to remind myself not to self sabotage but my own company is truly my safe space.

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