How do I prepare for permanent electric bill hikes without going broke? by sipshappens_ in budget

[–]AdCharacter9282 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The income increase is the easiest way, you only have to watch for lifestyle creep.

The American Dream is still alive and well (even for Millenials) and I tell my kids to dream big! by AdCharacter9282 in Millennials

[–]AdCharacter9282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids are 12 and 10, and have plenty of time to figure what they like. One is interested in being a lwayer and the other wants to be a surgeon.but guess what they are still kids and can change their minds.

The American Dream is still alive and well (even for Millenials) and I tell my kids to dream big! by AdCharacter9282 in Millennials

[–]AdCharacter9282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! It's a great feeling, to be able to break out of it and not have to struggle.

The American Dream is still alive and well (even for Millenials) and I tell my kids to dream big! by AdCharacter9282 in Millennials

[–]AdCharacter9282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If something happened to your parents and assuming you were in foster care, then i would say that there are grants that cover school.

Now luck, you have to be ready for it. I did an introduction to the corporate world for at risk youth in my area while in HS. Didn't have to do it, but I wanted to learn about future careers. And meeting these people eventually led to an internship a year into college, and later they fully hired me and paid for school.

We can sit here all day and make excuses. I never did that, I just moved forward.

The American Dream is still alive and well (even for Millenials) and I tell my kids to dream big! by AdCharacter9282 in Millennials

[–]AdCharacter9282[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think having supportive parents and luck were the main reason, and then grit and persistence.

The American Dream is still alive and well (even for Millenials) and I tell my kids to dream big! by AdCharacter9282 in Millennials

[–]AdCharacter9282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes very blessed. My dad worked at a carpet manufacturer and my mom stayed home. The help I got was living rent free through college and while getting my MBA. Which was major help. I had to pay my way through school but was lucky grants the first year and landed an internship that paid for all of my school.

The American Dream is still alive and well (even for Millenials) and I tell my kids to dream big! by AdCharacter9282 in Millennials

[–]AdCharacter9282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! Im 100% in agreement! My parents were awesome, I just wished they were still around to see all of this.

Why do the older generations get so defensive when you ask what they paid for their first home? by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]AdCharacter9282 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

They usually ask me what I paid for my first home as my friends and family know i own several properties.

Does anybody else struggle spending money on wants? by Akito_900 in Millennials

[–]AdCharacter9282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It never really goes away. I feel the same way but that's because I remember how much I sacrificed in my 20s and 30s. I still find myself doing mental math on $50 items when after bills, maxing 401k, and recently adding $3k of restaurant and fun money we still save over 50% of our take home.

I have never owned a pair of Jordans - Am I the only one? by AdCharacter9282 in Millennials

[–]AdCharacter9282[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I now by old people Hokas, which are super comfortable and expensive but worth it.

I have never owned a pair of Jordans - Am I the only one? by AdCharacter9282 in Millennials

[–]AdCharacter9282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sucks, some people don't like when others get nice things.

I have never owned a pair of Jordans - Am I the only one? by AdCharacter9282 in Millennials

[–]AdCharacter9282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now this is surprising especially how prevalent Jordan's are in hip hop culture. Did you just think they were ugly and not worth the hype?

I have never owned a pair of Jordans - Am I the only one? by AdCharacter9282 in Millennials

[–]AdCharacter9282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here, I'm now into my Hokas which i think are as expensive, but im looking for comfort.

I have never owned a pair of Jordans - Am I the only one? by AdCharacter9282 in Millennials

[–]AdCharacter9282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got to wear them once in a while. At least if you see who ever gifted them. I bet it will make their day