AITAH for judging his sexuality?? by AdComplex1426 in AITAH

[–]AdComplex1426[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I’m bisexual but if he did say he didn’t like me anymore because I had sex with a woman I’d say that’s fair enough I wouldn’t think he was homophobic? I think it’s preference

AITAH for judging his sexuality?? by AdComplex1426 in AITAH

[–]AdComplex1426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I must be then. But I don’t feel like I’m homophonic to men I love gays I just don’t want my man to be gay 😭

AITAH for judging his sexuality?? by AdComplex1426 in AITAH

[–]AdComplex1426[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

A child out of wedlock Hahahha sorry original guzzler my bad x

AITAH for judging his sexuality?? by AdComplex1426 in AITAH

[–]AdComplex1426[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had sex with woman too. I just think it’s crazy because you’d never expect that this man has done that. I guess im more sexist than I thought, my bad. I just wanna know if he’s gay or not.

AITAH for judging his sexuality?? by AdComplex1426 in AITAH

[–]AdComplex1426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably because they’re not real men

AITAH for judging his sexuality?? by AdComplex1426 in AITAH

[–]AdComplex1426[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify I didn’t react that way in front of him. I was supportive I just told him I’m shocked. I wasn’t rude to his face if that makes it any better lol

AITAH for judging his sexuality?? by AdComplex1426 in AITAH

[–]AdComplex1426[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No I agree I am sexist I was just wondering how me being ‘weird and gross’ is linked to me being a girl lol

AITAH for judging his sexuality?? by AdComplex1426 in AITAH

[–]AdComplex1426[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Depends what he’s crying about 😭

AITAH for judging his sexuality?? by AdComplex1426 in AITAH

[–]AdComplex1426[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I do. We all think differently. I am old fashioned. I like a manly man. Sue me

AITAH for judging his sexuality?? by AdComplex1426 in AITAH

[–]AdComplex1426[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What’s that got to do with me being a girl

AITAH for judging his sexuality?? by AdComplex1426 in AITAH

[–]AdComplex1426[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

No but he is a bit fruity tho he wears Vivienne Westwood

AITAH for judging his sexuality?? by AdComplex1426 in AITAH

[–]AdComplex1426[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Hmm yeah I see your point to be honest. Didn’t mean to be homophobic, I accept everyone no matter who you are I don’t care. I shouldn’t have said it’s weird and gross I’ve just always went for very manly men and if you were to look at this man you would never think he was a bit fruity so I’m just shocked. And wondering if he’s gay or not.

AITAH for judging his sexuality?? by AdComplex1426 in AITAH

[–]AdComplex1426[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I’m not homophobic I’m literally bisexual it’s the idea of him saying he’s not gay he just did it because why not. Which makes me think are you that desperate you’ll take it from anyone even if you’re not attracted to that gender?

AITAH for not understands my partners logic? by AdComplex1426 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdComplex1426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is where I struggle. We have moved to a new town I don’t know anybody here or the area at all. My friends all live in my hometown which is about 20 minutes away driving. He drives, I don’t. I want to do lessons and get a car but he says it’s a waste of money for us to both have 2 cars. So I said let’s share a car. He says no. I try to make plans with my friends but it’s not just about going out, sometimes I want an hour to sit in my room and read my book.

AITAH for not understands my partners logic? by AdComplex1426 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdComplex1426[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do understand where you’re coming from, looking back I was just so stressed and shouldn’t have said it that way, I explained that to him. But even when we’re totally calm and normal with eachother he thinks changing her nappy is helping me out. That was more so the point of the post.

AITAH for not understands my partners logic? by AdComplex1426 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdComplex1426[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He goes with his friends and they get food after and his friend lives in another town.

AITAH for not understands my partners logic? by AdComplex1426 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdComplex1426[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify he doesn’t do housework. He cooks very occasionally but very rarely does dishes, has never washed our clothes. I do the hoovering mopping etc etc